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im not strong enough


Question Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 2:19 pm

so there is this boy i have a huge crush on he knows that i like him and sometimes me him and my bestfriend have a joint convo on msn and even though m friends alway says thing that are so embarising i really enjoy it to be honest he is jst so nie to talk to but i really wont to tell him how much i love him and then mybe ask him out but im just not strong enough to do that what cold i do ??

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kiran answered Thursday October 15 2009, 9:21 pm:
Well you don't actually have to ask him out. I think that would be harder. You could just bring it up. Like sometimes my friends would text the guy they like and say, "i would like to hang out with you sometime" If you tell him how much you like him, to be honest, it might be a little awkward if he doesn't feel the same way. So suggesting it would be better. Good luck!

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sobeg answered Wednesday October 14 2009, 1:09 am:
Well you could ask him out without asking him out, I mean dont make it seem like your asking him out on a date more of like hey that new movie is coming out ..we should go watch it ( you, your friend and him) dont let him pay you all pay for your own ticket. then do it again like ...oh i really want to go to the park and hike or beach..and so on then if you want to just spend time alone to get to know him then you sort of say something that you know that hed be interested in doing or going but your friend cant. By this time you both will feel comfprtable being around each other and it wont feel like its new. this is just an idea that might work to get you to a point were you and him could talk somethign you both already have in common, and that might let him open up about possible feelings towards you or someone else. If he expresses feelings for you then you express you feelings and take it from there if he expresses feelings for someone else then you didnt risk anything.. you could try asking him whats his plans for the future, career? goals? kids? marriage? any special person? it might also give you a clue if this is a guy you might find even more interested or feel you can just be friends with. I hope this helps

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