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where do i go from here
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 10:36 pm
I found out today that my best guy friend that I've been crushing on years has just asked a frined of mine. Before this he kept flirting me,caring about me. Making me believe that we were more than friends. I had just work up the courage to tell him. I was going to tell how I feel on friday. Than i hear this "great" piece of news. The crazy part is that i'm not mad. I don't want to cry, i don't wanna break anything. Honestly i just feel nothing. I feel nothing, i'm numb. I don't know if i'm ok with it our just in shock to feel anything. I feel played, he really lead to me to believe that he liked me. Dagger in the heart. However, the girl he asked out. I like her, me and her our good friends. I don't hate her at all. I don't even ...
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this ones for my friend! alone?!
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 6:11 pm
ok this question is for my best gal friend :](jen for this website)
jen broke up with her boyfriend about 1 month ago and she feels she is ready to move on. i support her in finding a new guy. how should she go along with showing interest in a new guy? jen is interested is one guy in school but she isn't sure if he is single or not...should she ask? or just let things go....?
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im starting not to like HER because of HIM
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 6:08 pm
i like this guy. i shouldn't say like because i haven't had much of a chance to get to know him. i thought everything was going good. he flirted with me in school. and we hung out at sporting events. than he kind of stop showing interest in me and more in another girl my age who im calling sam for now. im not very close with sam but i say hey when i see her and ive never had a problem with her....until now...i find her irritating and conceited. i don't know, i think it could just be jealousy but im not sure. what should i do?
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don't want to be in a relationship
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 6:01 pm
So I am a freshman in college and I've been on a couple dates with this guy who really likes me a lot. I think hes adorable and sweet and stuff, and it's not like there are any other guys in my life right now, it's just that I don't want to be tied down in a relationship, at least for my first year in college. Is it selfish of me to want to continue dating him but not be labeled his girlfriend? and even so, i have a feeling hes going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon, so how on earth do i tell him how i feel without hurting his feelings?
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late nights with him
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 3:12 pm
My best friend at college and I are in the same major and its very hectic and challenging. We work really late nights in the studio, last night we finally went back to our dorms at 5am after working since 2pm. We keep each other sane during times like this. I'm kind of crazy about him too and I can't tell if he feels the same way but whenever I come to work at his desk he always plays music about relationships and I can't tell if he's hinting something. I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a week ago for other reasons and he really helped me through all of that but when I was with him my friend would play "Over and Over Again" by Nelly..which if you haven't heard it says "I can't keep picturing you with him, and it hur...
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"comming out of the closet"
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 10:24 am
So I have a girlfriend (im a girl) I have been bi sexual for awhile but I started dating "tina" and she showed me to be proud even if your bi sexual. I am terrified to come out to my family because we are really close and I dont want to lose that. Everyone I work with and my friends know and my cousin and aunt and uncle do how can I come out without feeling terrified? I know witht he holidays comming its usually not the best so what do I do?
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Robert Pattinson Girlfriend
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 3:44 am
Who's the prettiest girlfriend of Robert Pattinson?
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how to make a move
Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 12:36 am
I'm 17/m
All of a sudden, I realized that I had feelings for my really good friend (17/f). I'm pretty sure she likes me too, there's a lot of touching and ass grabbing and stuff like that. However, I don't know if
a) I SHOULD make a move and
b) if I should, then how
She goes to my school and normally I make it a policy not to date or hook up with girls from my school but I can't seem to get her out of my head.
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new places for dates n how to spice it up?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 9:42 pm
my boyfriend and i have ben going out for over a year, were soffmores. just got in a bad fight which we almost broke up we both cried our eyes out. how can i spice it up a bit to make things more new? or any new flirty things to say? or what can i do or bring him to to make him feel extra loved? everythings the same now we either go with friends or to a house or walk somewhere or mall or park, hes all into metal music n sXe
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my girlfriend.
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 6:53 pm
i'm unsure of my feelings with my girl.. i dont know if i like like her.. i mean when she was out with my guy friend im not sure if i felt any jeolousy with her being with him and there are other little things like that that make me unsure of how i feel. what do i do to figure out how i feel.. have her test me? idk.. like it might just be that i been too busy caring what others think of the relationship to actually think about how i feel with her. i know i like her, just i do not know if it is in the same way she feels towards me.
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me and my boyfriend *guys help is esp. wanted plz*
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 4:24 pm
so we have been dating for about a week and i'm the kiss and hug type. the problem is that i'm not sure if i should make the first move n kiss him(which the thought nTerrifies me)or let him kiss me?
*female age 13*
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(reasons)14/f luvs 17 bestfreind 1 prob though plz help thx :(
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 3:12 pm
(please dont judge by the age judge by wat i tell you first than if you want than judge by the age than judge the age thx)ok anyway i have a boyfriend named jack. he is 14 turnin 15. im 14 btw. well my bf is never really on anymore or never really emails me he waits until i email him and when i ask him why he didnt email me or why he hasnt been on he either says he has been sick or its his parents fault not his (i dont now if this is true or not i just now his parents sometimes doesnt let him stay on as long but he could email me u now) well now i have this crush who is 17. he's name is lane. we use to be like best friends but now we have a crush on each other. lane nows i have a bf and doesnt want to rush me but he asked me why i didnt dum...
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Long Sorry! In a relationship, but loving someone else
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 10:34 am
Okay so this is a typical situation I think, but one thats killing me
I have been with my partner for 2 and a half years.
We have had a bad bad time for most of it, and admittedly he treats me very bad, I have everyone telling me he treats me really bad, and even I know it, but its like I am stuck to him, I couldnt imagine life without him, seeing him with someone else would break my heart, and hes like my rock.
I have known someone called Fraser for 5 years, and we never used to talk, but I got very close to his Mum, and she was very much like my second Mum. He works in New Zealand, so spends most of his time there, but when he came home, and I met him for the first time ever since about 3 years, we go...
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How to respond?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 9:57 am
I've been with my boyfriend for almost three weeks, and people keep saying to me 'Awh, you and * look so cute together!' or things along those lines, and I'm not sure how I should respond. I mean, naturally I'm happy, but I'm just not sure what an appropriate response to that would be.
Any suggestions? :)
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Trust issues.
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 6:01 am
I seriously need some help.
Ok, so 2 weeks ago... at the start of the school holidays, my boyfriend and I attended this party, everyone was piss wasted, and I was so out of it...
I don't remember a lot, but...
My boyfriend told me to make out with this really hot chick, so I did... Then this random dude was like, ALL over me... and He was kissing me and feeling me and shit.
And... my boyfriend saw and he was being all emo the rest of the night, I tried to make it up to him, but he wouldn't talk to me, like at all.
The next morning, I went to another state and went to another suburb... (like for the holidays)
I haven't seen him in two weeks, and just recently he's been talki...
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stuck on wut to do :|
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 5:16 am
firstly, there`s this guy i have known for about 5 months now. we were friends at first but it wasnt long before we started flirting w/ eachother. we have kissed && stuff but we have never actually "dated" i mean i like to get to know someone before i jump into a relationship and he feels the same. any way recently we have argued a lot. && now we arent talking to eachother no more. i really liked this guy && he said he really liked me. we argued because he said he thinks i dont care about him. maybe bcoz i was still playing hard to get, but thats just me. we havent spoken for a couple of weeks now but we have gone through a phase like this before but we made up weeks later after we had time to think. more t...
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Question about choosing between my love for my mother or for my girlfriend.
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 12:21 am
Where do I begin?
Story of my life:
was born in the philippines, we were wealthy back home. with a single mom, working as a part time nurse, and a full time manager of a computer company. She left all of this to go to Canada to work as a nanny so she could sponsor me so I could come to Canada and have a better life.
4 years after her hard work working in Canada with a minimum wage as nanny, all her hard work payed off as I am now living in Canada all thanks to her.
3 years later when i went to Highschool, in my first year I met this girl online that lives in California. We both fell in love with each other so we both decided to work out a long distance relationship. We would vi...
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My boyfriend is completely ignoring me...was I used?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 12:09 am
Okay, here it goes! So, I have been seeing this guy a little over a month now, and the last time I talked to him was last tuesday after we had spent the night together again. I guess I consider him to be my boyfriend.
Well, I have tried to call him but he won't answer his phone. I drove down to his place and his truck is there so I know he must be home. I emailed him a couple of times now and he hasn't emailed me back. It's pretty frustrating.
Should I go ahead and move on or try and wait on him? We did have sex each time we saw each other since we started dating. My friend said maybe he used me but I don't know. I've been used in the past and the guy did end up completely ignoring me. Do you think this is what has happened? What should I do?
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How to get a girlfriend
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 12:05 am
So, I'm in college and yesterday I turned 19. I was hanging out in the library between classes and this girl that I've been talking to came in and sat near me. We talked a little, and before I left I finally asked her out on a date (set for Friday). She said yes and I was really happy. I thought it was like a birthday present from God or something cheesy.
So, today (the day after my birthday, obviously) I go on my Facebook. I see that she has sent me a message about how she only wants to be friends with me and didn't mean to give me the wrong impression. I feel like I couldn't get a girlfriend to save my life though. I've never had one and have never even kissed a girl. I'm sure it sounds pathetic.
If y...
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My husband feels more like a brother
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 12:01 am
I have been with my husband for 12 years now. We've had some really great times but I've come to realize that he is more like a brother or a best friend to me. We aren't intimate much and we both seem to be satisfied with that. I don't feel any closeness between us that would indicate to me that our relationship was closer than brother/sister. I'm confused and am not sure what I should do? My feelings are strange and I'm beginning to worry about many things. I wonder if he still loves me and if he feels the same way about our relationship as I am beginning to. What do you think should go on? I don't have any idea on how to confront him about this situation. Should I consider divorce?
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