i like this guy. i shouldn't say like because i haven't had much of a chance to get to know him. i thought everything was going good. he flirted with me in school. and we hung out at sporting events. than he kind of stop showing interest in me and more in another girl my age who im calling sam for now. im not very close with sam but i say hey when i see her and ive never had a problem with her....until now...i find her irritating and conceited. i don't know, i think it could just be jealousy but im not sure. what should i do?
kiran answered Sunday October 18 2009, 5:14 pm: Haha, I've been like that. I think I figured that since he is showing interest in her that I wasn't good enough or something. So I started picking out things I thought were bad about her.
Since she isn't exactly one of your friends you don't really have to deal with her. Just ignore it, I mean, he has talked to you before so obviously, your not that bad so there is no reason for him to stop talking to you because of her. Just give him a reason to talk to you. Like make it seem like your one of the best. Don't go overboard and act like your all that but just show him that your a great girl and that he should continue talking to you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
fortylove answered Sunday October 18 2009, 1:30 am: well, if you weren't really close with her, you can just pretend not to notice her, and ignore the little things that annoy you. continue to be nice to her even though she annoys you.
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