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My boyfriend is completely ignoring me...was I used?
Okay, here it goes! So, I have been seeing this guy a little over a month now, and the last time I talked to him was last tuesday after we had spent the night together again. I guess I consider him to be my boyfriend.
Well, I have tried to call him but he won't answer his phone. I drove down to his place and his truck is there so I know he must be home. I emailed him a couple of times now and he hasn't emailed me back. It's pretty frustrating.
Should I go ahead and move on or try and wait on him? We did have sex each time we saw each other since we started dating. My friend said maybe he used me but I don't know. I've been used in the past and the guy did end up completely ignoring me. Do you think this is what has happened? What should I do?
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wow... that guy sucks. move on you are much better without him. even if he wasnt using you hes a jerk so drop him and go your so much better then that
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I know you probably don't want to hear this but yes it sounds like you were used for sex. I don't want to offend you but I think for the future you might want to wait a few months before having sex with your partner. I agree with the person below me though I would get yourself tested to make sure you are on the safe side. Should you wait for him? No, this guy sounds like a complete jerk. There are better guys out there that will treat you the way you should be treated.
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Im so sorry hes being a jerk! It may be tough to hear this but...yeah i think he usedyou. Not to offend you but i really hope you used some form of STD prevention/ Contraceptive if you or he did anything oral,anal get tested to be sure he did not leave you marked for life. I dont mean to be rude but i really hope this sad lesson helps you understand one thing...sex before security can lead to these kind of situations now im not saying that you cannot live a healthy sex life without marriage but i am saying to please take care of your self and feelings, and your body. If you need any more advice i will be more than willing to give you more advice. I really am sorry . I hope this helps
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