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stuck on wut to do :|
firstly, there`s this guy i have known for about 5 months now. we were friends at first but it wasnt long before we started flirting w/ eachother. we have kissed && stuff but we have never actually "dated" i mean i like to get to know someone before i jump into a relationship and he feels the same. any way recently we have argued a lot. && now we arent talking to eachother no more. i really liked this guy && he said he really liked me. we argued because he said he thinks i dont care about him. maybe bcoz i was still playing hard to get, but thats just me. we havent spoken for a couple of weeks now but we have gone through a phase like this before but we made up weeks later after we had time to think. more to the point, i am trying to get over him (because we may have fallen out forever for all i know) but i can`t. there are about 3/4 other guys who are interested in me && i cant bring myself to flirt with them. it is not bcoz of the guy i like, but when i am with the other guys i jus cant be bothered flirting w/ them && i lose my patience when they are telling me how much they like me. i duno what to do :| im 16/F/FL
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Well for starters i know exactly what your talking about. And how you feel. So let me tell you what the best thing for you to do is. You know how you guys argue all the time and what not?
Well Nothing I mean nothing is worth it. You guys arent even together and you guys are forever argueing. Seems like he's just leaving you and coming back to you because he knows you will take him back. Now i know this is nothing you didn't want to hear but its the truth. Just because only a few other boys are interested in you doesn;t mean anything. You have your whole life to love someone. But you can not let a guy walk all over you and take advantage of you and disrespect you.
-Hope I Helped;I Tried.
-->Sarah.
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please do not get offended by my opinion...Girls do not have to flirt Never lower yourself into potential emotional problems and confusion. in other words theres no need to flirt when you got the goods ( brain,character, self esteem, confidence, loks etc, etc) If you really like this guy this is what you should do...Appologize and do not play hard to get...that hurts guys feelings too you know. I do not believe its proper for a guy or a gal to play hard to get i mean if you like him and he shows he like you why make it hard on him? would you like that? you can really avoid a lot of heart aches if you always begin a relationship being honest and have a strong will to communicate. Look im not trying to lecture you really im just saying if you go around looking around so much youll end up doing worse. again if yo ulike this guy tell em sorry and let it go enjoy his companionship and let bye gones be bye gones. I hope this helps..if not then tell me.
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