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late nights with him
My best friend at college and I are in the same major and its very hectic and challenging. We work really late nights in the studio, last night we finally went back to our dorms at 5am after working since 2pm. We keep each other sane during times like this. I'm kind of crazy about him too and I can't tell if he feels the same way but whenever I come to work at his desk he always plays music about relationships and I can't tell if he's hinting something. I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a week ago for other reasons and he really helped me through all of that but when I was with him my friend would play "Over and Over Again" by Nelly..which if you haven't heard it says "I can't keep picturing you with him, and it hurts so bad" and now he plays songs like "Crush" by David Archuletta "I Gotta Feeling"-Black Eyed Peas, "Down"-Jay Sean and "Wonderwall"-Oasis.
I don't know if this is a coincidence or a hint. But sometimes he asks me to pick songs to play but I can't think of any on the spot.
I'm in this situation almost daily, what songs can I play that are about being over the past and having feelings for him?
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Answer this question honestly: Are you really over the past? I mean, it has only been a week.
I am so uncool, I'm 38, so all of the songs I could tell you are waay out of date. If I were you, I wouldn't play any songs that talk about being over your ex and interested in him. Play songs you really like and want to hear. I mean, this guy seems to be really enjoying the chase, so why don't you let it continue for a while, or how about songs that say, "I'm still a little screwed up, but I can see myself having feelings for you." Cheryl Crow has a good song about that. Something like "The First Cut is the Deepest." Listen to it first, though, because I don't want you blaming me if it is all wrong, or even better, say this, "I was talking to someone about our relationship and she told me the song reminds her of us" That way, if it totally doesn't fit, you can both talk crap and laugh at me.
I don't know how long you were with your boyfriend, but if you get over him too quickly it will really bother your new friend. I know it sounds screwed up, but if you were all into this guy two weeks ago, and now you're falling for someone else, it will make your friend wonder just how deep your feelings really run. He really wants you to get over this guy now, but in a few months he will be wondering how quickly you would be able to replace him. You know how people who have affairs together, then get together, now can't trust eachother because they know the person was cheating, even though it was with them. Does that even make any sense, because I feel like I just worded that all screwed up?
Anyways, you would do much better to say, "I take my relationships seriously, so I need a little time to deal with one thing before I move on to the next." He will totally respect you for it when it's his turn.
I say, let things go the way they are for now-why would you want to change a thing, and all it will do is make him want you more, respect you more, and think once you tell him you're his girl he can count on it.
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Hey there,
It sounds like a hint to me. You could always ask, or just flirt with him to be sure ;)
Here are a few songs for you: *Believe-Cher *I Will Survive-Gloria Gaynor *Since You've Been Gone-Whitesnake,Head East, Wierd Al Yankovic, or Little River Band *More Than You Deserve-Meatloaf *You'll See-Madonna *Listen to Forgiveness-Don Henley *Before He Cheats-Carrie Underwood *Bye Bye Boyfriend-Fefe Dobson *You've Got a Friend-James Taylor *Don't Stay-Linkin Park *Don't Speak-No Doubt *You Otta Know-Alanis Morrisette *Don't Look Back-Boston *Gone Forever-Three Days Grace *Never Again-Kelly Clarkson *Time For Me to Fly-Reo Speedwagon *As If-Blaque *There You Go-Pink *Strong-Jordyn Taylor *Fighter-Christina Aguliara *Me, Myself and I-Beyonce
If you want to check out some of the lyrics to these songs.. and more, Check out this website:
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) it has a ton of songs listed; including the ones above. But if you scroll down, there are a ton of more lists/songs made in all of the comments going down the page.
Hope this Helps! <3
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