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"comming out of the closet"
So I have a girlfriend (im a girl) I have been bi sexual for awhile but I started dating "tina" and she showed me to be proud even if your bi sexual. I am terrified to come out to my family because we are really close and I dont want to lose that. Everyone I work with and my friends know and my cousin and aunt and uncle do how can I come out without feeling terrified? I know witht he holidays comming its usually not the best so what do I do?
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a confession is always going to make you nervous and terrified..the only way is to overcome this is by actually going out there and doing it. before you do it think of the best words to use and what your going to say to them.
take them out to dinner or tell them over the dinner table somewhere where there is not interruptions like over coffee or something...ask them to meet your girlriend and tell them that you want them to be apart of their happiness etc
even if they get angry theyr your family and theyr close to you which means theyr there for you for the good and the bad.from what your saying i really do think that by telling them it might bring you guys closer because your being honest with them. just dont tell them that everyone else knows about it because they may feel let down that you didnt come to them first
goodluck :)
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