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Should i keep chasing
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 7:47 pm
Ok so ive been rejected 5 times so far this school year and idk if i should continue to go for girls or just wait and 14 and a guy. Right now i like a girl but she doesn't like me and im moving on so i don't waste my time so should i chase or just not do anything or what?
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Girls helpp!
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 7:18 pm
Okay so im flirting with this guy and i have a strict rule on smoking/tobacco and all that. Well he does dip sometimes and i think thats the grossest out of all of them. I dont want to have a long relationship with this guy i kind of just want to go out with him for a week or two so other guys notice me. You all know how once you cant have them you want them more. Well that happened a couple years ago and i want guys to notice me more. Im not ugly though. Im 15; Cheer captain; Skinny; Long blonde hair and Blue eyes. Im not gonna makeout with this guy cuz that just grosses me out knowing i could have some kind of tobacco disease from him. Anyways do you think this is wrong; should go out with him at all?
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Prom?
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 11:03 am
So there's this boy. He's a sophomore in high school and I'm a senior. (he's 16 im 18) I really really am starting to like him, but I think he might be too young for me? I don't know. Another problem, I used to like his older brother, but things got complicated and he went to college this year not wanting a girlfriend. I was ok and now we're just friends. But is that weird too? Could I be confused about my feelings for the sophomore and his older brother? I really do like matt (sophomore) I just think people may see us as too differnt in age. And I want to ask him to prom!! He always tells people how gorgeous he think I am and he's so sweet and funny. I'm basically really confused.
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all the guys please help me!
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 1:40 am
ok im a 17 female. and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. were both virgins and we really want to have sex! weve been together for almost a year. and everytime were together we always carry around my baby brother. like if were alone the adults are super watching us. so my boyfriend started saying just bring your brother. cause everytime hes with us then they kinda give us a little break and stuff. well i get mad cause i dont want him with us every single freaking time! and my boyfriend doesnt find anything wrong with it. well i was complaining to my mom and she says that she can tell me and him want to go further with eachother and he probably keeps my baby brother around to keep his mind off of sex and us being alone cause if we we...
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i just dumped my boyfriend
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 12:45 am
Ok so i just dumped my boyfriend and I don't know what to do now! I had my reasons but now i am not sure my reasons were good enough and i feel kinda stupid for dumping him.
what should I do?
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how do you get boys attention
Posted Monday November 9 2009, 12:43 am
i know this sounds stupid but how DO you get a boys attention? I don't mean in a stupid way but in a way that is going to make him want to be around you more. You know what I mean?
Please and thank you!
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...he does something to me.
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 11:39 pm
hi! 19 female. this may be longer .. sorrry! but i appreciate everyone who helps me out!
where to start .. i've known this kid nick for a long time now, about 4 years. we use to be close but now we see each other probably twice a month if that, we don't text that much but i still love the kid. he's adorable, he use to treat me right but he had a girlfriend. he was with his girl for about 3 years, they recently "broke up". i honestly feel like i can't trust him anymore and that he just wants me to have sex with him?? he's told me that they're not dating anymore and that they're just really good friends .. i don't believe it though. i always tell him to just tell me the truth because he knows how much i hate liars, it...
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he's driving me crazy
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 11:07 pm
we went out with this for about a year. eighth and ninth and some tenth. I love him so much. we were each others' first love, and i know i'm going to have to get over him. I've been with guys, but none compare to him. Other than that, i keep pushing guys away too, its hard to love again. The reason why we broke up was because one weekend we were supposed to hang out. I had bad grades so my mom wouldn't let me chill with him. Before I had told him that one of my friends thought he was cute, and this was before I had said yes to us getting back together. He got mad that I couldn't hang out with him, so he called her :(...asked her to come hang out. when she asked him if we were together, he told her no. And he was being all flirty with her an...
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Why won't he talk to me?
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 10:33 pm
So I went to go see someone who I had never met before in person, and we had a nice couple of days together...we even kissed and slept in the same bed together (I didn't actually "Sleep with him" though)...he never said anything about being attracted to me or any type of compliment for that matter...and he would reject me trying to give him affection when it wasn't bedtime...this made me become even shyer and less talkative and ESPECIALLY less confident in myself (I don't have a lot of confidence in my looks or personality to begin with)...now that I'm back home, he won't even talk to me...when he's online, he won't say anything to me...I don't understand, and I am very confused and hurt...
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feeling neglected.
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 9:47 pm
we've been on and off for a while now. almost a year. and 7 times out of 10, we're on. right now, we're on, but just not official. i guess neither of us just wanna be under the pressure of having a social nametag saying "girlfriend/boyfriend" over our heads. well, he doesnt. i wouldnt care. anyways.
lately it seems like i'm the backup plan. neither of us can drive yet, and we're both 17. hes getting his license in about a month. and so all we really do is i go over to his house and we hang out in his room or hangout outside. the sex is nonexistent, since we're never alone, but we do what we can. so i can see how having his guyfriends come pick him up and going to providence would appeal more to him, especially if he...
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When he comes back...
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 8:18 pm
Alright. Here we go. Here's the info. I am a freshman in high school and 14 years old. It all started back in seventh grade. I basically fell into obsession with this one guy (We'll call him Mike). Well I liked him all of seventh grade but he barely knew I existed. Then eighth grade came around and he and I started getting to know each other. We talked ALL the time. Over IM, at school, hung out... and we were open with our liking each other. Thing was, he didn't want a girlfriend. And I totally understood that. We were in eighth grade and I felt that was pretty young and that we weren't quite mature enough for that yet. So I thought "Okay, just wait until high school, see if you still like him then..." Well… I wasn’t really ex...
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Problems with my Girlfriend
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 5:59 pm
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.
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I need to move on-songs
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 4:35 pm
15/f
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months. we've always been very on and off, but i think this is the end for real. Hes kinda a jerk and i need help telling myself im over him. I need some songs that will help me to remember why i dont want him.
I would prefer if they were indie/altenative/hard rock. and male singers would be cool. Sad somgs make me think of him so i need something slightly aggressive/angry. One i've been listening to is 'better off' by T.O.A.D.
Thanks a bunch guys
XXXOOO,
Lonley_girl <3
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More then friends?
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 3:48 pm
female/15
So one of my best friends is a guy and we've known each other for about 5 years (give or take) and he's really sweet and funny. The other day one of our mutual friends told me she thinks he likes me and he wants to be more then friends! I didnt believe her though. Then yesterday another friend told me the same thing because the way he talks to me and i told her it was an inside joke thats why she didnt get it. At first, i didnt think it could be possible! He's always liked really pretty girls and im not pretty, just average. Its not like im ugly (i dont think anyone at my school is ugly) but i just dont have a pretty face. Every girl he's ever liked has be gorgeous so i didnt think it would be possible that he like...
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a two year relationship and I'm just not feeling it anymore..what do I do?
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 2:13 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for right at 2 years..as a matter of fact our anniversary is in a week.He's 17,I'm 18.
During the whole two years I have been the one to keep everything together. I have fought and fought to keep the relationship going, through all kinds of crap he's put me through..like seriously, you wouldn't even believe what I've put up with.Usually we spend every waking hour together, but for the past month he has been out of town a lot visiting family and he's come back for like two days at a time every week or so. I've spent a lot of time alone and just with family the past month since he's been gone and had a lot of time to just think..and I guess all the sudden the past two years kinda just caught up wit...
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I have a crush on a guy and I want to know if he likes me back.
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 10:39 am
I have this crush on a guy, and I think I've seen things that may show that he likes me, but I'm not sure if I'm right. For example, my friends and i were checking if we could catch his attention discreetly, so she called out my name out loud, he didn't hear it, then the second time he looked at me. Also, sometimes I find him staring at me, but once I look he turns away. He also teases e at swim team, so do I. Once we were at Finals and the team was putting blue gel into our hair, and he refused to do it, so around three of us decided to put some in for him. We got him, but he was still trying to get away. After we found some more and decided to put more in, and after running for a bit he just let me put it in. And that time I was the only one after him.
Does he like me?
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My crush
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 1:49 am
I am 14/f. I am really good friends with this guy in my school, but he is 17.. I've fallen madly in love with him because he is everything a girl could want in a guy. I've told him that I like him and he says that he feels the same way too.. When I only liked him as a friend, we could talk for hours. Now that we know that we like each other, it gets really awkward when we are around each other and we are both just silent. I miss the days when we could talk to each other! What's happening!? Is he too old for me?
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Do you think they hooked up?!
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 11:19 pm
So do you guys think the girl and the guy (in the blue sweater) hooked up or did something shady that night at the halloween party?! Or do they just look plain drunk. Do you think something happened between them that night? Ha loads of questions.
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what???
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 11:14 pm
17/f
I know that who ever reads this is going to have the impression that i'm cheating and not being fair and that i'm not a good person... but i need help. so before you go on thinking that i'm a horrible person, listen to me and see if you can help me..
I have a boyfriend. he's my age and we've been going out for 5 months. I really like him. he makes me happy and its going well. well he introduced me to one of his other friends, who is 2 years older (19) and at first, i thought he was a cool guy and good friend. but after talking to him for a while, he told me that he likes me. and my reaction was like "wow.... holy crap what am i supposed to do?? i have a boyfriend...." and so after he told me he l...
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boyfriend always away?
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 2:44 pm
Im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. The title is a little misleading bc hes usually here, just the holidays...not so much. Last year we started dating in late december. he was away for new years, and then went on a cruise during valentines day. its alright bc he planned it with his family before he met me and the new years thing had been planned for weeks. Then he wasnt able to see me for the weekend for out 6 month anniversary. Then my birthday, he was visiting a college. Now i just learned he will be in cancun for christmas and new years AND our one year. Also, hes taking the same cruise for valentines day. I dont really know what to tihnk about this bc hes NEVER here for any of the holidays and holidays are important to me and its happenin...
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