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More then friends?
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So one of my best friends is a guy and we've known each other for about 5 years (give or take) and he's really sweet and funny. The other day one of our mutual friends told me she thinks he likes me and he wants to be more then friends! I didnt believe her though. Then yesterday another friend told me the same thing because the way he talks to me and i told her it was an inside joke thats why she didnt get it. At first, i didnt think it could be possible! He's always liked really pretty girls and im not pretty, just average. Its not like im ugly (i dont think anyone at my school is ugly) but i just dont have a pretty face. Every girl he's ever liked has be gorgeous so i didnt think it would be possible that he like ME. But after i started thinking about it, i realized that I LIKE HIM! Now, it feels pretty awkward around us (for me atleast) but i try not to show it. What if he does like me? Should i risk our friend ship and ask him or should i just get over my crush? If i dont ask him im worried he might never know how i feel but if i do ask him im worried he might not feel the same way. What should i do? Im really worried about risking our friend ship because i love him so much.
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Well from experience...
I've dated my best friend who I too ended up having feelings for. Come to find out he kind of did from the beginning but hid them for fear I didn't feel the same way. One day we made out and hit it off but the main thing we did was we were honest with one another. Just ask him have you ever seen us as more than just friends? Just break the ice and see what he says I mean if you're best friends he shouldn't freak out.
In the end its your choice because in some way you are risking the friendship just a bit.
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okay you should ask and see how he feels and tell him that some one keeps saying that we like each other is it true and then tell him the truth and nothing but the truth of how you feel .
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you know, what you can do is tell him what you heard say something like "do people ever tell you that they think we like each other? (laugh)haha..cuz people told me that it looks like we like each other lol..isn't that weird?"...and then see how he reacts or what he says...with this, it might make him realize how much he likes you too! like, get him thinking about it....but.....I would tell you to tell him how you feel, but usually from what i know, when this stuff happens, people lose each other...that happend to two of my friends including me....losing our best guy friends.....but everyone is different, so your situation might turn out different for you! I hope this helped, and goodluck!:D
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