Member Since: November 6, 2009
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18/f
Freshman college student.
I hang out with 3 other girls who live down the hall from me. One of the girls has liked a sophomore guy(Drew) since the beginning of school. He helped her move in to her dorm. I always knew who he was but we never talked more than a few words in a group conversation. Well Friday night 2 of the 3 girls and some guys including Drew were hanging out. We started drinking and my friends left because they're uncomfortable with it so I stayed back with the guys. I had never really hung out with any of them much before but I wasn't ready to go to bed. We ended up hanging out until 5 in the morning.
Saturday night. The same thing happens, all the girls and the same guys are hanging out. The guys were drunk, I didn't have any but the girls were uncomfortable again and left around 11. Me and Drew had started up our own conversation, isolating ourselves from the group and didn't even notice the girls leave. At around 1:30am the guys went to bed, leaving me and Drew on the floor of the common room talking. We talked until 6:30am! About everything, relationships, jobs, family, sex, school, our major (everyone I've mentioned are all in the same major). At 6:30 people started waking up and came out and saw us still sitting on the floor so we decided it was best if we went to bed. He asked for my number, walked me to my door and then he left.
Sunday, we were all working late hours on projects in the studio and I was most likely going to pull an all nighter. Drew, who usually would visit my friend at her desk was now visiting me more frequently and my friend definitely noticed. She had stopped talking to me, gave Drew an attitude, and gave us both dirty looks. He didn't want to talk to someone who gave him an attitude for no reason so he just continued to stay at my desk and ignore my friend. I have yet to flirt with him! And he always comes to me but my friend is still mad. She has a very bubbly personality and doesn't know how to flirt, so I'm sure he's clueless that she likes him. I have been myself the whole time and he hasn't stopped talking to me since that night when we stayed up. Well my friend left the studio at 4 in the morning without a goodbye. We were supposed to walk back together so we didn't have to walk in the dark alone but instead she just left without me. So I stayed and finished my project until 6 when Drew and I decided to call it quits. He walked me to my room again and then left to go to his dorm.
Today we were texting and his response to something I said was "You are sooo awesome, how have we never talked before?"
I don't know what to do. The only reason I haven't flirted with him is because of my friend's feelings towards him but he doesn't have feelings for her at all and her bitchy behavior lowered the chances of that ever happening. She's turning the group against me for 'stealing her man' even though she never told him she liked him and I never flirted. If he likes me, I'm sorry but thats not my fault so I don't deserve an attitude. I thought college was about growing up and getting away from childish behavior and drama.
What do I do? I see them both everyday. (link)
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really if she was a true friend she wouldnt get mad at you for talkin to him and thinking you stole his man so the best part is to ignore her and keep talking to the guy dont mention anything
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female/15
So one of my best friends is a guy and we've known each other for about 5 years (give or take) and he's really sweet and funny. The other day one of our mutual friends told me she thinks he likes me and he wants to be more then friends! I didnt believe her though. Then yesterday another friend told me the same thing because the way he talks to me and i told her it was an inside joke thats why she didnt get it. At first, i didnt think it could be possible! He's always liked really pretty girls and im not pretty, just average. Its not like im ugly (i dont think anyone at my school is ugly) but i just dont have a pretty face. Every girl he's ever liked has be gorgeous so i didnt think it would be possible that he like ME. But after i started thinking about it, i realized that I LIKE HIM! Now, it feels pretty awkward around us (for me atleast) but i try not to show it. What if he does like me? Should i risk our friend ship and ask him or should i just get over my crush? If i dont ask him im worried he might never know how i feel but if i do ask him im worried he might not feel the same way. What should i do? Im really worried about risking our friend ship because i love him so much. (link)
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okay you should ask and see how he feels and tell him that some one keeps saying that we like each other is it true and then tell him the truth and nothing but the truth of how you feel .
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