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Girls helpp!
Okay so im flirting with this guy and i have a strict rule on smoking/tobacco and all that. Well he does dip sometimes and i think thats the grossest out of all of them. I dont want to have a long relationship with this guy i kind of just want to go out with him for a week or two so other guys notice me. You all know how once you cant have them you want them more. Well that happened a couple years ago and i want guys to notice me more. Im not ugly though. Im 15; Cheer captain; Skinny; Long blonde hair and Blue eyes. Im not gonna makeout with this guy cuz that just grosses me out knowing i could have some kind of tobacco disease from him. Anyways do you think this is wrong; should go out with him at all?
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::Mr. Skittles Said::
But you should also have remembered that using someone in a relationship leads to those around you rejecting you completely for being a disillusioned, narcissistic bitch.
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It really can't be said any clearer than this, you're being incredibly selfish and shitty. You know, in a couple of years high school will be over, and you won't be able to "date" one guy and "not make out so you don't get tobacco disease" (what's a tobacco disease, by the way? Can you name one for me?)
No, you'll be in college, where you either put out or get blown off. So you'll be a complete slut with no self respect to get this attention you crave so much.
Or you can grow up and start dating because you meet someone you want to be around more, rather than for some pathetically small bit of social standing you could probably exceed by being a nice person and talking to people.
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Yeah, I know how being unavailable makes you more attractive.
But you should also have remembered that using someone in a relationship leads to those around you rejecting you completely for being a disillusioned, narcissistic bitch.
You aren't that person, are you?
If you aren't ugly like you say, just wait, the right person will come along.
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It's wrong to use anybody purely to boost your own ego.
How would you feel if some guy dated you for a few weeks, just so other girls would notice him?
I bet you'd think he's a scum bag.
Don't do it.
I've never heard of any illness you could get from someone because they smoked tabbacco. It's just gross is all. And it's as a good a reason as any to not kiss someone.
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Honestly i wouldn't go out with him seeing as you don't approve of what he does there's plenty of other boys out there it seems like your using him which if he knows you are it will most likely hurt him i would just drop it and move on
you shouldn't have to pretend to date someone in order for boys to like you :)
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honestly if he really likes you than yes you could flirt without dating and how would you feel if someone did to you what your thinking bout doing to him remeber honey what cums around goes around. and im sure they already notice you but do you act like you notice them relax there still young and so are you hope i helped
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