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he's driving me crazy


Question Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 11:07 pm

we went out with this for about a year. eighth and ninth and some tenth. I love him so much. we were each others' first love, and i know i'm going to have to get over him. I've been with guys, but none compare to him. Other than that, i keep pushing guys away too, its hard to love again. The reason why we broke up was because one weekend we were supposed to hang out. I had bad grades so my mom wouldn't let me chill with him. Before I had told him that one of my friends thought he was cute, and this was before I had said yes to us getting back together. He got mad that I couldn't hang out with him, so he called her :(...asked her to come hang out. when she asked him if we were together, he told her no. And he was being all flirty with her and shit. It hurt me, so i cut him off. Some say that he was trying to make me jealous. Some say he was just desperate. I don't know what to think about it. Anyway. We didn't talk for a whole year. During that time, he was talking bad about me to my friend that he had called that day.Telling her how much he hated me :(. He would prank call me :(. A year later now He has been texting me lately. My friends and I went to this dance party, and he was there. We had a moment where we were just looking at each other and he had a little smile on his face. He was stalking me. And he had his friends come up to me to tell me that he was there. He texted me to say Happy Birthday. He knows how much i love to sing, so he asked me to go record a song with him. I asked him what the song was about, at first he didn't tell me, but i ended up finding out that it was about me. That i had broken his heart. I don't know what to do :,(. He makes me cry. Just the thought of everything. I love him so much i can't even explain it. He told me that he still likes me. I don't know if i want to believe him. a part of me wants to think that maybe he was with a lot of girls but he still couldn't get over us?....or is he just desperate?...i don't know what to think...it hurts so bad...and he has such a strong hold on me i can't even deny it anymore...what do you guys think?

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Additional info, added Sunday November 8 2009, 11:16 pm:
oh yeah one more thing! at the dance party, i was with my friend that he had called,and he was just starring at me.....

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AdviceMistress answered Monday November 9 2009, 12:22 pm:
This boy sounds like he's in preschool he's not worth your time! If he broke up with because you ahd to stay home he has some issues and should stop being so selfish. As for the other girl let her have him...its her problem now. You want a guy who can treat you right and as cliche as that is its so true. You don't want this jerk playing mind games with you its not worth it at all. What makes you think he won't do it again? Move on. He's not worth it what you need to do is concentrate on the important things right now and not about him he is the least of your worries. Ignore him!

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chris12677 answered Sunday November 8 2009, 11:14 pm:
oh yeah one more thing, at that dance party, i was with my friend that he had called that day. but he was just starring at me.

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