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feeling neglected.
we've been on and off for a while now. almost a year. and 7 times out of 10, we're on. right now, we're on, but just not official. i guess neither of us just wanna be under the pressure of having a social nametag saying "girlfriend/boyfriend" over our heads. well, he doesnt. i wouldnt care. anyways.
lately it seems like i'm the backup plan. neither of us can drive yet, and we're both 17. hes getting his license in about a month. and so all we really do is i go over to his house and we hang out in his room or hangout outside. the sex is nonexistent, since we're never alone, but we do what we can. so i can see how having his guyfriends come pick him up and going to providence would appeal more to him, especially if hes bored. but its getting to where i only see him twice a week, or less. we used to see eachother at least 3 or 4 times a week. but now i'm going to public school and hes homeschooled and so i cant see him during the weekdays, and hes always out with his friends on the weekends. i want him to get it through his head that he would have all week to hang out with his other friends, and that id like to see him on the weekends,...but i dont want to seem possessive, since we're not official. like, as far as everyone else knows, even our closest friends, we're still single.
how do i talk to him? what do i say? WHEN would i say it, since i dont know when the next time is i'm going to see him?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Just tell him how you feel, but try not to get on his case about, just say it in the "I miss you and would really like to spend more time together" kind of way.
If he feels the same about you, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's still kind of pushing you to the side after he gets his license, though, I would rethink whether he's the right guy or not..
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