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boyfriend always away?
Im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. The title is a little misleading bc hes usually here, just the holidays...not so much. Last year we started dating in late december. he was away for new years, and then went on a cruise during valentines day. its alright bc he planned it with his family before he met me and the new years thing had been planned for weeks. Then he wasnt able to see me for the weekend for out 6 month anniversary. Then my birthday, he was visiting a college. Now i just learned he will be in cancun for christmas and new years AND our one year. Also, hes taking the same cruise for valentines day. I dont really know what to tihnk about this bc hes NEVER here for any of the holidays and holidays are important to me and its happening continuously. i just dont understand what to think about this and i dont want to bring it up bc i feel like itll make me seem needy and annoying but its really upsetting me. What should i do? Thank you in advance.
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Please consider yourself lucky. I'm an 18/f and my boyfriend is a 17/m. {Two months ago he was 16 just like you} - I'm off at college while he's finishing his senior year of High School. Before I met him I chose a college very far away from home and the only time I can come home is FOR the holidays.
You have the opportunity to see him every other day except the holidays, I would give anything for that. Let him go off and enjoy his holidays and you guys should enjoy every other day together. I was away at college for both our 5th month and 6th month! I will be at college for our 1 year too. Your boyfriend be gone for one - two weeks at most. Then he'll be home and back with you. So don't sweat the small things (:
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You have to make him aware of his actions against you, if he continues it you can threaten to break up with him, because seriously a boyfriend has to be there for you for holidays, he just can't run off all the time. So if he doesn't stop DUMP HIM.
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