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all the guys please help me!
ok im a 17 female. and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. were both virgins and we really want to have sex! weve been together for almost a year. and everytime were together we always carry around my baby brother. like if were alone the adults are super watching us. so my boyfriend started saying just bring your brother. cause everytime hes with us then they kinda give us a little break and stuff. well i get mad cause i dont want him with us every single freaking time! and my boyfriend doesnt find anything wrong with it. well i was complaining to my mom and she says that she can tell me and him want to go further with eachother and he probably keeps my baby brother around to keep his mind off of sex and us being alone cause if we were alone wed probably do something so my baby brother is something to his mind off of us doing stuff. she said thats how guys minds work. well i askd him flat out. and he said thats true, cause he does want to have sex with me but he doesnt want us to get in trouble or anything cause we both agree that we think if we were alone we would probably try to do it. well my question to all you guys is that really how you guys think? if you dont want to have sex cause your still a little scared of the consequences you find something to keep your mind off of it? thanks in advance
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hay gurl im sorry that im not a guy but I definetly can give you the answer you looking for....
ok some guys are like that and others just want to take things slow cause they care for you that much that they want to make the momment completely right so if your bf is afraid of the consequence then how bout you guys just go to his place and from my understanding with your family seem to be a lil up tight and protective of you but you have to take a stand cause they are not going to always be there to controll your life so sit down and talk to your mother that you both are ready to have sex and that it nature of life it may don't be on the time that you want it to be but it nature of life they don't understand then still go thrugh with it if you want to...but you should talk to your bf made there are more reason why he don't want to just yet oh and guys will try to find a good reason not to want to get in the momment....
hope this is what your looking for....
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I sort of understand where he's coming from.. sounds like your parents are being protective...
I'm sorry, but I don't think of consequences when I'm going to get laid. but then again, I'm 24, and there are no limits for me. your parents sound like they just need to get used to the idea that their little girl isn't so little anymore. do you hang out at his house often? if not, try doing that. or...just go out on a picnic hike at a state forest... thats a fun way to get the hell away from prying eyes.
just remember, use a condom.
-Gunner
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