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Prom?
So there's this boy. He's a sophomore in high school and I'm a senior. (he's 16 im 18) I really really am starting to like him, but I think he might be too young for me? I don't know. Another problem, I used to like his older brother, but things got complicated and he went to college this year not wanting a girlfriend. I was ok and now we're just friends. But is that weird too? Could I be confused about my feelings for the sophomore and his older brother? I really do like matt (sophomore) I just think people may see us as too differnt in age. And I want to ask him to prom!! He always tells people how gorgeous he think I am and he's so sweet and funny. I'm basically really confused.
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Honestly, I am in the middle of the same thing right now, and I don't consider the age to be a big deal. The only difference is that I'm a freshman in college and he's a junior in high school.
I know it's hard now, but seriously, try not to worry about other people. It's something that I've been working on FOREVER, and still struggle with sometimes, but it's your life and you have to make decisions for yourself and no one else. So what if they do have an opinion about it. The ones who matter will support you regardless of what other people think.
Bottom line is that you can't help how you feel. You are struggling with your head saying one thing and your heart saying another, another thing I, too, am dealing with right now. But, I am one who generally chooses to go with my heart. You have feelings and you can't deny them or try to suppress them, it doesn't work very well.
Best of luck :) If you have any specific questions, feel free to send them to my inbox!
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Well if your concerned about the age difference just remember that your age is just a number also no it's not weird that your friends with his brother he's at college you probably aren't going to see him focus on the sophomore it seems like he likes you seeing as he's said those things about you to others i'd give him a chance he deserves at least one everyone does there's no harm in trying if he says no to prom well then at least you know you tried instead of doing nothing there's plenty of other boys out there if you really like him then go for it cause you'll probably regret it if you don't :)
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