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hi! 19 female. this may be longer .. sorrry! but i appreciate everyone who helps me out!
where to start .. i've known this kid nick for a long time now, about 4 years. we use to be close but now we see each other probably twice a month if that, we don't text that much but i still love the kid. he's adorable, he use to treat me right but he had a girlfriend. he was with his girl for about 3 years, they recently "broke up". i honestly feel like i can't trust him anymore and that he just wants me to have sex with him?? he's told me that they're not dating anymore and that they're just really good friends .. i don't believe it though. i always tell him to just tell me the truth because he knows how much i hate liars, it's a serious thing for me. when we hang out he doesn't try anything on me .. i mean we flirt alot but nothing serious. we haven't done anything EVER. lately he's been texting me asking if i want to have sex with him .. hm right? nothing ever happens though so i'm like okay whatever you know. well then i see his "ex's" car at his house (i see this because my good friend is his neighbor) so i'm like what the eff? thought they broke up. i've brought it up to him before and he's said that they still hang out and are just good friends but i know she is still in love with him i mean they dated for a long time and lost their virginity's to each other. he seems to only ask to hang out with me when its convenient for him .. i can't take it anymore. i always give in. what am i suppose to do? we can still be friends because he treated me like a best friend when he was with his girlfriend, but now that they're supposively done, he's texting me asking if i want to have sex? what am i suppose to say next time he says something like that? i don't want to seem like a creep and be like .. "i always see your "ex's" car at your house, i thought you two were done.." and even if i said something like that i bet he will say "we are" it's just such a confusing situation. i feel like he's not telling me the truth about her and the thing i don't get is that he KNOWS that i'll see his ex's car over there .. when i'm at my friends. i'm not blind or dumb. i don't know whats up with him. i've tried asking him but he says the same thing .. it doesn't make sense. any suggestions?
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I know this is going to be tough but stay far away from this guy he sounds like bad news. Sounds like he's got some baggage attached to him too...he says he's done with his ex but she's still hanging out with him? Thats a bit fishy to me unless they are planning on getting back together or trying to figure out some issues. He may have been a nice guy with good intentions but he's changed from what you have said. I find it to be rude that he's even asking you to have sex with him. My advice is jsut stay away from him it maybe hard now but it will keep you out of trouble and will avoid any conflict that might happen.
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He sounds like an ass really.I'm sorry if you don't like hearing that. And I agree with you that he might think you are a stalker knowing when she is over lol...what i think you should do is one of these days....have your friend that lives by him tell you when she is at his house. Wear some sexy ass langere? is that how you spell langeray?haha ...but anyway...wear something hott under your clothes, and leave your shirt open making sure that you reveal the stuff you are wearing....not too much so it gets his mind going....ofcourse you are not going to have sex with him...but go over there when you know the girl is there....send him a text saying you want to....a way flirty text....and then ring the doorbell!haha...then you can find out whats going on really between him and her. that will put him in an awkward situation, that way you can see his true colors, weather good or bad!..i know this probably sounds a way crazy...but i would do it...
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