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How can I get to know him?
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 10:46 pm
Im a 42 (43 next month) single and work in a Drs. Office. We recently saw a patient who I thought was attractive and very nice. After he was finished treating in our office I was sad I would'nt be seeing him anymore. Then a few months later I found out he works at the hospital next to our offices. I see him occasionaly and have been trying to find a way to get to know him better. Of course he doesnt know I exist. Im really shy and terrible at talking to people. I thought of friending him on facebook? Or having a friend who also works at the hospital say something to him. He is also only 39..am I to old for him? I have been out of the dating pool awhile & Its been along time since someone has interested me this much & he is probabl...
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me nd him
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 8:58 pm
ok so me and my ex went out for bout 2mon...and he broke up with me...at that time i found myself missing him and still having feelings for him, but i knew i couldnt do anything about it. well recently we both found out we still have really strong feelings for each other. its been 2months now and he hasn't asked me out, and he doesnt have a girlfriend. and eveyday he flirts and hug and touches me like we go out but, my thing is i like the flirting but i'd rather be with him. wat do i do...i wanna talk to him about it but i dont wanna run him off. plz help
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I don't know...I think things have changed.
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 6:01 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months today. When we first started out, he was always really sweet and he'd always say sweet things. Then, we started getting a little more "sexual" I guess you could say. We didn't really go on "dates" we'd just sneak out and go do stuff, but he still was really sweet and it wasn't just because we did stuff, he was just genuinely sweet. We started discussing sex and I told him that I want to wait, and he said he'd wait for me to be ready, but we both knew it was a possibility. Well, I kept changing my mind on the sex issue, because I was afraid if we had sex, our relationship would be boring because there would be nothing to look forward to. So I guess he finally got tired of cha...
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does he like me
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 5:54 pm
ok so this is what is going on.I used to like this this guy last year but he liked my friend the whole year. This year I thought my feelings for him were completely over. Last year he was nice to me buy since he only liked me as a friend it hurt me a lot. So on thursady I saw him in the morning and we talked or whatever. Then he walked me to class and we walked together to another class. Then today I talked to him a little. I really don't want to be hurt again. He has done this kind of thing to me he walks me to my class and we talk but then the next week he dosnt walk me to class and we don't talk. ???? Ughh the bad part is I think I am getting feeling for him again. I think he knows I used to like him and thinks I am always going to be t...
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Does he love me??
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 4:08 pm
i have been dating this guy for 5 months now, and we have had sex and we both care about anther. i love him and i have loved him for awhile now. i know he cares about me but he hasnt said "i love you" he has told me that he is scared and doesnt want me to get hurt and that he about about me.he knows how i feel, even though i havent come out and told him that i love, but he knows. i dont want to tell him i love him because i dont want him to feel pressured into saying it back. so the question is; does he love me?
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Torn between the two
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 7:56 am
My name is Taryn and I am 17 years old. I was dating this guy, Trevor, for a few months, and we were pretty happy. But then someone from my past came back,Allen, and I had hated him for the longest time because of what we went through. But I don't hate him anymore. Trevor and I started fighting because of it. I became unhappy. But Allen just left for the marines, and i miss him like crazy. We hung out the day before he left and I was happy again.
Me and Trevor tried to be good again, but he made a big deal about me wearing allens hoodie in a picture on facebook. i broke up with him because i'm tired of the bullcrap. so were on a 'break' now.
i don't know what to do, or who to choose. I'm so confused. please help me.
thanks
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Boyfriend and his ex
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 2:35 am
Just come vital information: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I just recently lost my virginity to him. Things have been really good, and I love him.
We both have separate lives. We like it that way. My friends, and his both consist of guys and girls-- even if we've dated them.
He called me earlier today, asking if he could go visit one of his friends in college for the weekend. She goes to Boston, which is about 4 hours from me. She made it very clear that me coming with him was out of the question. She says they haven't spent much time with each other, and that she has the right to spend the weekend with him. But I don't like this.
I'm not typically a jealous girl, especi...
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Boyfriend said something really weird...
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 12:19 am
A couple of days ago my boyfriend said, "I tend to **** everything in life up." And I said, "No you don't, you haven't ****ed up this relationship." Now here's the weird part... the next thing he said was "Well, I'm trying to distance myself from you so when I do **** it up, the breakup won't kill me. Because it will." He wouldn't talk about it after that... what the heck does it mean and what do I do?! I'm sort of freaked out.
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me and my girlfiend broke up and i still love her
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 11:12 pm
my girlfriend told me she lost feelings for me but i still love her she said she wants to work it out but all we do is argue because she texts someother guy and flirts with him kinda how can i get her back and keep her happy with me how can i get her to get the spark for me back
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dancing at school
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 10:05 pm
ok so in my school we are doing a dancing unit. so there is this on girl that is really pritty and i wantto dance with her but my friend wants to dance with her and he said that we should rock paper sicorses it i said no cuz i want to for sure be the only one to dance with her
13/m
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Failure at boys?
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 8:01 pm
I am such a big freaking failure when it comes to boys. I'm very vain and picky when it comes to boys as boys are with me. I choose the hot guy that appears to be mr. perfect over a decent one 99.9% of the time. So in a way I'm setting up myself for failure... I'm so tired of being ms. pretty perfect. Is it too much just to ask for a decent guy that makes you happy? Oh yeah well S-U-P-E-R-F-I-C-I-A-L-ness is what I'm surrounded but who am I to judge? I'm incredibly superficial myself. However unlike the rest of my blonde bimbo classmates here in Beverly I actually have the brains and a great personality to match. I'm so tired at being the TROPHY GIRLFRIEND. I'm tired of always ending up in tears after a failed relationship. Why is this? Oh ...
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so confusing.
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 6:18 pm
15/f
sorry it's kind of long.
lets just put this out here: i consider myself to be 110% straight. i could never even CONSIDER being with another girl.
another thing, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. although i've had MANY opportunities to be in a relationship, i've passed them all up. i think i have commitment issues or something, or just a fear of being "trapped" in a relationship.
ONE more thing-i have WAY more guy friends then i do girl friends. I find girls...very annoying and over dramatic, and i try not to get involved in drama. My closest friends are girls, but i get along much better with guys.
anyways, lately, some of my guy friends have joki...
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Telling a guy how I feel...not sure if he feels the same way.
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 5:04 am
18/F
Long question, sorry.
I'm a freshman in college and struggled at first with meeting people when I first moved in, despite the fact that my roommate and I were very outgoing people in high school. A couple of months in, we began hanging out with our RA, Ally, because she knew everyone from my high school. Ally introduced us to her friends (also RAs) Joey and Jake. She also told me that she had a huge crush on Jake. Unable to help my feelings, I developed a strong crush on Jake over the past couple of months as well. At first, I layed low and tried not to get in the way for the sake of my friendship with Ally. However, Jake made it clear that he had no feelings for her whatsoever, and Ally started backing off as wel...
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Annoyed...hurt...IDK!
Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 2:55 am
Alright so the german guy I was talking to ya.....
so tonight I went to my friends house and we were talking...please dont say anything I know this was stupid....but I created another profile on wkw of someone else a very pretty girl. So I put ti up found him and asked for his friend request. So a few hours later I get on mine...nothing but than I get on hers....he freaken added her! Ugh so that mad me so mad so I sent him a message saying :
you know instead of doing that you could've just
had the descency to tell me that you didn't want
to meet up but hey I guess I was right later
Well no my emotions are starting to catch up with me some more and i'm thinking straight. I'm still pi...
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i love my best guy friend.. but my boyfriend...
Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:28 pm
15f
so i have this guy friend who i liked for like ever, and he finally made a move.. but i was already about to get with this guy, and the guy who is my bestfriend held my hand and i kissed him, but my dad would never approve.. well he would but then he wouldnt be able to come stay the night with my brother.. and they are bestfriends.. and so therefore our relationship would be a lie and secret.. and i want a real relationship.. so i am dating this guy who is amazing, but i keep seeing my friends face, and my boyfriend said he loved me and he cares.. but my friend has always been there.. now we are in a fight.. and i care so much for my friend.. but feelings are forming for my boyfriend.. and i dont know what to do.. this should be ...
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dirty talk?
Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 3:16 am
me and my boyfriend love dirty talking to each other when we can't be together, but lately he wont dirty talk back to me. im not sure why though. when i asked he just said that he couldnt think of anything to say. i was just wondering if there could be any other reason.
another thing is he always wants me to say dirty things to him, and i do. but he refuses to say anything dirty to me. i kinda feel like im just being used to help him get really turned on. what should i do?
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Should I continue, go for it, or forget about it?
Posted Tuesday December 1 2009, 10:14 pm
Hey, I'm 14/f, almost 15. There's this guy that I recently had sex with even though I've only known him for a month... and I only know him because he's sorta a drug dealer and I met him through my ex boyfriend. I would actually do it again. Not too great, especially because he's 17. I don't even know when he's turning 18. He has a daughter too... and him and his girlfriend broke up like a week before we had sex.
The times I've hung out with him showed me, in my mind, that he was really sweet and nice. He seemed like he could care about me. Just the way he kisses me and watches out for me and walks me home makes me feel happy.
I'm a freshman in high school and he's in adult ed. My ex boyfriend says he's just a...
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so confused about a guy liking my best friend
Posted Tuesday December 1 2009, 9:45 pm
This is a long story but I will summarize as much as possible.There is this boy ,who I've liked for probably a little less than 2 monthes.He liked me back right away and I began to show lots of interest ,considering he is shy and kinda geeky and i wanted him to realize I liked him and i wasn't gonna turn him down. We talked for a while until he slowly lost interest,probably because I became to easy.... But one day I brought my best friend over his house and he had the nerve to beg for her number and talk to her on facebook,etc. Which upset me,but she had no interest whatsoever with him .She thinks he's ugly and just wants to be his friend.Turns out ,he begins talking to her daily,he asked her on a date,tried to kiss her,all this stuff and s...
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My relationship with him a total lie?
Posted Tuesday December 1 2009, 9:16 pm
I'm now starting to question my relationship with my supposed "amazing" boyfriend. He acts completely different with me than with his guy friends. He treats me like a princess and does everything a good boyfriend should when he's with me and I love it. When he's with his friends he turns out to be an *** and a douche bag. He talks like SON ARE YOU WHIPPED ON HER?! or like he calls his friends F-A-G-S :/ wtf and they all just act like douche bags together. He talks about me like I'm a freaking accesory rather than a girlfriend. They talked about if I like to take charge and ride him on top WTF?! I wasn't even there when they were talking about this but my friend said he heard them talking about me/other girls like that. I was reall...
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Trust Issues
Posted Tuesday December 1 2009, 3:49 pm
I am a 22 year old female with a 25 year old boyfriend. I have a great boyfriend, who I know would never do anything wrong or do anything to hurt me, but I always find myself questioning what he's doing, who he is talking to, where he is going, etc. I torture him relentlessly every day, even though I know it's wrong. I don't want him to break up with me, because honestly he is the best thing in my life, and I will never find anyone who loves me as much as he does, but I can't control my behavior and the way my mind thinks so negatively. Can someone offer SOME kind of advice that might've worked for you?
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