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Boyfriend said something really weird...
A couple of days ago my boyfriend said, "I tend to **** everything in life up." And I said, "No you don't, you haven't ****ed up this relationship." Now here's the weird part... the next thing he said was "Well, I'm trying to distance myself from you so when I do **** it up, the breakup won't kill me. Because it will." He wouldn't talk about it after that... what the heck does it mean and what do I do?! I'm sort of freaked out.
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Truthfully i understand your situation. I really dont know what to say to you though. My ex told me something like that, and we both have depression issues, and he is trying to prevent pain to the both of you, but im not really sure why.
What happened with me and my ex boyfriend, he does stupid things, for absolutely no reason, and he knows he does that. Maybe your boyfreind is kinda like that, and knows that he might do something to **** it up.
All i can really tell you to do, is try to put yourself in a mindset that, whatever happens, if you love him, and he is happy, that is all that should matter. Also keep an open mind. if he breaks up with you, there are 7 billion more people on earth. You will find someone eventually.
I cant really tell you much more. but if you need someone to talk to, im always here for you, and just ask me.
Sorry i couldnt help more, but dont forget im here for you!
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