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Failure at boys?
I am such a big freaking failure when it comes to boys. I'm very vain and picky when it comes to boys as boys are with me. I choose the hot guy that appears to be mr. perfect over a decent one 99.9% of the time. So in a way I'm setting up myself for failure... I'm so tired of being ms. pretty perfect. Is it too much just to ask for a decent guy that makes you happy? Oh yeah well S-U-P-E-R-F-I-C-I-A-L-ness is what I'm surrounded but who am I to judge? I'm incredibly superficial myself. However unlike the rest of my blonde bimbo classmates here in Beverly I actually have the brains and a great personality to match. I'm so tired at being the TROPHY GIRLFRIEND. I'm tired of always ending up in tears after a failed relationship. Why is this? Oh yeah my ex is probably one of the biggest assholes you'll ever meet. He has anger management problems. He's judgmental, vain, rude, inconsiderate, homophobic, and he's a pathological liar. Only it took me several weeks to find this out... he was always on his best behavior around me and he was INCREDIBLY sweet. Mr. Perfect you could say. Anyways I just have given up on boys completely... seriously. Meh I'm in no position for another relationship. I mean I always choose the shitty hot guy and end up in tears. It's like a shampoo and conditioner repeat cycle.
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obviously you know what your problem is ! you need to quit with the looks. i mean, any girl likes a good lookin guy, dont get me wrong. but if you find a guy that really likes you for who you are and not what you look like, why not give him a chance ? you might find yourself so much happier then you are with guys now. im not sayin he has to be ugly, but he might not be model material.
or, just get to know guys before you date them. dont just go for them because they're hot. actually find out hobbies/interests, life story... get to know them for who they are inside. that way you wont date the 'shitty hot guy'.
in beverly i know that a lot is based on looks and status, but i cant imagine anyone bein happy like that ! i suggest really tryin to get to know all different types of guys, and not just the ones you go for.
good luck, feel free to ask me anythin !
x sweeethoney
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