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How can I get to know him?
Im a 42 (43 next month) single and work in a Drs. Office. We recently saw a patient who I thought was attractive and very nice. After he was finished treating in our office I was sad I would'nt be seeing him anymore. Then a few months later I found out he works at the hospital next to our offices. I see him occasionaly and have been trying to find a way to get to know him better. Of course he doesnt know I exist. Im really shy and terrible at talking to people. I thought of friending him on facebook? Or having a friend who also works at the hospital say something to him. He is also only 39..am I to old for him? I have been out of the dating pool awhile & Its been along time since someone has interested me this much & he is probably a little out of my league (though my coworkers say im not) I have no idea how to break the ice & my friends are to busy with there "unsingle" lifes to listen to my request for advice. What do you think?
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my boyfriend is 9 years older than me, so 4 years is not bad at all!! and I was very shy, maybe much more than you, and I got over my insecurity and gave it a shot.. and Im only 20. So if I can do all that, for sure you can too.
plus, how do you know he doesnt notice you. He probably been feeling the same way about you too!! you never know, give it a shot. Dont friend him on facebook because thats kinda creepy. He might remember you from the office and wonder how you know his information, and why you searched him. Just one day, ask him if he would like to have lunch or coffee with you.idk, think of something, you sound smart! (:
you are not out of his league because you both have something in common, as mentioned in the previous response.you both are in the medical field... that can be a conversation starter between you two.
good luck!
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The next time you see him, I would start a light conversation. Something along the lines of, "Hey! How are you? I remember you from your visit to the doctors office. You work at the hospital?" Than take it from there. Afterwards I would go ahead and friend him on facebook.
I think you just got the jitters. I'm sure he'll remember you, and I bet you talk to people just fine! So relax!
Age really is just a number. I don't think you're too old for him at all. Plus, some guys think its very attractive for the woman to be older.
Don't put yourself down. I think you're very much in his league. He's nice. You sound nice. You both work in the same field. Have more confidence in yourself!
Good luck. I hope I helped. If you ever need anything else, I'm here!
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