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so confused about a guy liking my best friend
This is a long story but I will summarize as much as possible.There is this boy ,who I've liked for probably a little less than 2 monthes.He liked me back right away and I began to show lots of interest ,considering he is shy and kinda geeky and i wanted him to realize I liked him and i wasn't gonna turn him down. We talked for a while until he slowly lost interest,probably because I became to easy.... But one day I brought my best friend over his house and he had the nerve to beg for her number and talk to her on facebook,etc. Which upset me,but she had no interest whatsoever with him .She thinks he's ugly and just wants to be his friend.Turns out ,he begins talking to her daily,he asked her on a date,tried to kiss her,all this stuff and she didn't know how to tell him she didn;t like him.She finally told him,and he thought the only reason she didn't wanna go out with him was because of me (since i like him and shes my best friend) ..which isn't true! Now I THINK he hates me and he won't even talk to me or acknowledge me.He used to talk to me nonstop and we were very close until she came into the picture. He told another one of my friends that he likes girls that pay no attention to him,which I did the opposite of when we first started talking.He told my best friend (the one he likes ) that he would never like me again and it'll never workout between me and him so he's gonna wait around for her.I want to say something to him to clarify that I AM NOT the reason she doesn't like him and I want to be neutral with him but I don't know if I should talk to him first or if I should leave it alone...help!
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Leave things how they are trust me.This happened to me and I kept going after the guy all I got back was a big reject that hurt me a lot. Make yourself hard to get that will get his attention. He didn't pay attention to you because he thought you would always be there, prove him wrong. Even try talking to other guys and fliriting this will get his attention back to you. Also if he thinks it is your fault tell him once if he dos'nt beleive you than tell him when you want to talk to me again tell me ok? Trust me it always works. This will leave him thinking about you. Hope I helped you out
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Hmm. I say you leave it alone. I know that when you like someone, you want to talk to them all the time, or at least I do. If you leave it alone it'll give him the chance to get over your best friend. You're probably right about the fact he lost interest because you liked him so much, so if you act like you don't care and have moved on, he may end up liking you again. But all-in-all if the guy said it won't work out with you and him, he's probably not worth it. Oh, and if he said he's going to wait around for your best friend, think of it this way, he's kind of a creepster. :) Good luck girl.
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