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there's so many things in my head right now. my grades are slipping. i'm constantly pressured by my parents to work harder and harder...and well harder. don't tell me to speak with my parents because i did, [countless times] and they just say that i'm not trying hard enough and i'm worthless. yes worthless. i am a worthless and lazy s.o.b to their eyes.
i'm constantly feeling tired. i can hardly keep my eyes awake in school.
i feel sad all the time. all the activities i used to do is nothing to me now.
everything is like a blur.
my health problem is currently worsening and i'm sick and tired of being sick all the time.
i just dont want to talk anymore.
i just want to be left alone.
sometimes i just want to get everything over with.
i've contemplated of being depressed but if my parents found out i'm seeking help...they'll kill me.
i do not know what to do.
friends are deserting me cause i just don't want to talk anymore. i dont want to hang out. i dont want to do anything ...but sit there. (link)
It is a great possibility you are depressed. Try going to the doctor. You really don't need to live life being sad all the time.


Hey, I'm trying to find the right laptop for me... and I know nothing about laptops. My boyfriend has a black Mac.. he bought it probably for about 1,500.. and he says they're good, it's lasted him for a little over two years now. But my friend says that's a horrible decision and they get hacked the most easily. I'm leaning towards a mac, but is that the best idea??

I want something with a built in webcam/mic so I can video chat with my boyfriend while he's away at school, and something that can hold my schoolwork, music, movies, photoshop or other programs like the rosetta stone. Which laptops hold the most space and will last me a good 5 years?

Sorry, like I said I know NOTHING about this stuff. Advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! (link)
I have an HP. It has a webcam/mic built in, and it's not too pricy. I've had this one for about a year. I use Avast virus protection. It updates automatically everyday and is really great. Spyware: Search and Destroy is another great program to keep spyware away. I use photoshop on here. I also listen to music everyday, and I have watched movies before. I love it.


Hey, I'm 14/f, almost 15. There's this guy that I recently had sex with even though I've only known him for a month... and I only know him because he's sorta a drug dealer and I met him through my ex boyfriend. I would actually do it again. Not too great, especially because he's 17. I don't even know when he's turning 18. He has a daughter too... and him and his girlfriend broke up like a week before we had sex.

The times I've hung out with him showed me, in my mind, that he was really sweet and nice. He seemed like he could care about me. Just the way he kisses me and watches out for me and walks me home makes me feel happy.

I'm a freshman in high school and he's in adult ed. My ex boyfriend says he's just a player and I fell for it. I still think I can.. maybe.. get with him. Get with him as in become his girlfriend. What is your opinion on this or what would you do?
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He probably only wants you for sex.

Sorry to sound like your mother, but don't go around sleeping with guys that easy. Guys will go after you because you're easy, not because they really care about you. They're good at putting on shows. Plus, if he has a daughter...Not a good situation to be in. Oh, and STD's and pregnancies. Make sure you get tested between partners. I say you drop this guy.


hey i was wondering if anyone had some songs that just make you feel hot and ready to party like sexy bitch, birthday sex, or tick tock

thanks :D (link)
I'm in Miami Bitch by LMFAO.

I used to hate them but a lot of their songs have grown on me and make me want to go party now.

Evacuate the Dance Floor - Cascada

Money Honey - Lady Gaga

Hmmm.

Tik Tok is my definite favorite though. :)


Im am 15/f. I have had an acne problem since i was 12. i have tried almost all the products i could find.Clearasil, Proactive, cetaphil, skin id, this aveno thing, and im currently using clean and clear. ive used countless others i cant remember. my skin breaks out on my forehead, but my cheaks, nose, and chin are always so dry! what can i use to help? thank you in advance! (link)
You didn't list Clinique. I suggest the Clinique 3 step kit for extra dry skin. It really does work and it gets rid of blackheads. I love it, but your skin may be different. It's also a little pricy. You can ask for some samples though.


This is a long story but I will summarize as much as possible.There is this boy ,who I've liked for probably a little less than 2 monthes.He liked me back right away and I began to show lots of interest ,considering he is shy and kinda geeky and i wanted him to realize I liked him and i wasn't gonna turn him down. We talked for a while until he slowly lost interest,probably because I became to easy.... But one day I brought my best friend over his house and he had the nerve to beg for her number and talk to her on facebook,etc. Which upset me,but she had no interest whatsoever with him .She thinks he's ugly and just wants to be his friend.Turns out ,he begins talking to her daily,he asked her on a date,tried to kiss her,all this stuff and she didn't know how to tell him she didn;t like him.She finally told him,and he thought the only reason she didn't wanna go out with him was because of me (since i like him and shes my best friend) ..which isn't true! Now I THINK he hates me and he won't even talk to me or acknowledge me.He used to talk to me nonstop and we were very close until she came into the picture. He told another one of my friends that he likes girls that pay no attention to him,which I did the opposite of when we first started talking.He told my best friend (the one he likes ) that he would never like me again and it'll never workout between me and him so he's gonna wait around for her.I want to say something to him to clarify that I AM NOT the reason she doesn't like him and I want to be neutral with him but I don't know if I should talk to him first or if I should leave it alone...help! (link)
Hmm. I say you leave it alone. I know that when you like someone, you want to talk to them all the time, or at least I do. If you leave it alone it'll give him the chance to get over your best friend. You're probably right about the fact he lost interest because you liked him so much, so if you act like you don't care and have moved on, he may end up liking you again. But all-in-all if the guy said it won't work out with you and him, he's probably not worth it. Oh, and if he said he's going to wait around for your best friend, think of it this way, he's kind of a creepster. :) Good luck girl.




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