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Member Since: December 3, 2009
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Last Update: December 3, 2009
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Hey! I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together a year. So here goes...

He's like a robot.. and he always wants to be sexual. Now.. before anyone assumes that he's a jackass.. he's not. He's plenty sweet.. and we have just as much of a sexual connection as we do a mental. He's a good guy, I promise. But sometimes I have trouble getting in the mood. Like.. I'll pretend to be sleeping, or sick.. just so we won't have to hook up. I'll even have friends sleep over, in my room on an air mattress just so he won't try anything.

Please don't think I'm no attracted to him or that he's not good at pleasing me. He is. And no, I've never had this problem with other guys I've been with.

I love him.. so I don't want this to ruin our relationship. He puts up with it.. but it's not fair what I'm doing to him. Lying, pretending, all that nasty stuff.. it's just not like me to do those things. I don't want to hide anything from him.

Help. (link)
your not in the mood maybe cuz u need to spice it upso try diff positions and oils and candles dif places in and outside the house it helps


Alright so the german guy I was talking to ya.....

so tonight I went to my friends house and we were talking...please dont say anything I know this was stupid....but I created another profile on wkw of someone else a very pretty girl. So I put ti up found him and asked for his friend request. So a few hours later I get on mine...nothing but than I get on hers....he freaken added her! Ugh so that mad me so mad so I sent him a message saying :

you know instead of doing that you could've just
had the descency to tell me that you didn't want
to meet up but hey I guess I was right later

Well no my emotions are starting to catch up with me some more and i'm thinking straight. I'm still pissed off but at the same time I;m so sad that this would happen...just I kinda regret sending that message but I kinda dont I just...now I have a feeling he reall wont talk to me anymore and I mean if that was the case than fine good ridence...but I just still feel so sad in a way I dont know what to do becuase I know in my heart I still wanna talk to him but he hasn't gotten on still to the point wher eI can reall just talk to him...help? lol (link)
just suck it up princess look u made a mistake now deal with it just try and talk to him if he doesnt wanna talk to you then move on and find sumone better


okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it? (link)
Stop ovber analyzing everthing just start kissing and making out and he will feel u up pull him on top of u pull off his pants ans stuff pull of yours and bam itll happem and it will be amazing




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