Gender: Female
Location: Sacramento
Age: 22
Member Since: December 3, 2009
Answers: 2
Last Update: December 3, 2009
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okk...im 14, and weight 132 lbs...and my calve muscles are so annoying,,,they are 14 inches....is there anyway that i can slim them down...i've been running for a month now and that has not been effective at all...
is there any exercises recomended to reduce inches on calves?? (link)
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I have a sister your age who is very muscular in her calf area aswell. She always complains to me about how she gets teased for it and it bothers her. Well I could give you advice on how to make them smaller, but truthfully there isn't really anything to can significantly make your genetic makeup and muscle composition change. Most people have the opposite problem of trying to build their calves. I have that problem. I have had straight legs without calves my whole life and have worked really hard to increase the size of my calves. As you get older you will realize having strong beautifully muscular calves is a blessing rather than something you want to change about yourself. You can wear heals and your legs will look awesome! Plus you look athletic and sexy in workout clothes! Don't try to change something about yourself because people pressure you or tell you isn't good enough. I'm 22 and have been through all the middle school and highschool bullcrap people tell you either out of jealousy or purely because they want to make you feel bad about yourself. Don't let these people win. Also, at your age don't worry about your weight...at 14 you should be enjoying your friends, family, and things that matter:). None of this will matter when you are older and aren't around these people that make you feel like you aren't good enough:)
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So I talk to my coach every single day in her office. She knows all about my past, my drug use, my family, my friends, everthing there is to know about me. I know that she cares a lot about me because i am the only player that she texts on a daily basis, and she is always wondering how my day is going. However, i am her player, and i am 18 and she is 25. I wish everything could work out between us, but i know that it cant. She thinks im psycho, and im her player. I really wish i could tell her, but i know things would be weird after that...what should i do? no one else knows how i feel except my best friend from home who does not know my coach. i dont want people to find out how i feel. (link)
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Hi there,
As a former college athlete I can understand where you're coming from. My crush wasn't on my coach as she was close to 50 and I wasn't into her, but I had a crush on one of the assistant coaches. It's a really difficult situation because you get the butterflies everytime they are around, you have to see them on a constant basis, but you must maintain a professional relationship with them. We never talked about what was going on between us and I feel as though it was probably better that way. It may be hard to deal with and it hurts everytime you are around the person because you want them and it's such a messed up situation that you don't think it will be possible for it to ever work out. But if you really care about her, you have to think about how this situation could affect her. In the end that's what i thought about. If she does have feelings for you she could get in a lot of trouble for having a relationship other than player/coach with you. She could lose her job and the respect of the rest of your teammates. I guess what I'm trying to say is I put the crush I had as far out of my mind as I could and moved on to meet new people and am in a great relationship now. I know how hard it is...just keep your head up stay focused on your sport:). It gets better I promise.
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