Hey, I'm 14/f, almost 15. There's this guy that I recently had sex with even though I've only known him for a month... and I only know him because he's sorta a drug dealer and I met him through my ex boyfriend. I would actually do it again. Not too great, especially because he's 17. I don't even know when he's turning 18. He has a daughter too... and him and his girlfriend broke up like a week before we had sex.
The times I've hung out with him showed me, in my mind, that he was really sweet and nice. He seemed like he could care about me. Just the way he kisses me and watches out for me and walks me home makes me feel happy.
I'm a freshman in high school and he's in adult ed. My ex boyfriend says he's just a player and I fell for it. I still think I can.. maybe.. get with him. Get with him as in become his girlfriend. What is your opinion on this or what would you do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lali1095 answered Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:22 pm: well if i was you i would not go for it there many reasons:
-drug dealer lead to trouble
-had sex with him, he'll use you wanting more
-he's older and has more time to party and go to clubs and you are to young
-he'll get tired of you trust me...i've been there
-no matter how sweet or hot he is he doesn't like you like you like him..he might only like you physically
mmmsteph answered Wednesday December 2 2009, 4:21 pm: He probably only wants you for sex.
Sorry to sound like your mother, but don't go around sleeping with guys that easy. Guys will go after you because you're easy, not because they really care about you. They're good at putting on shows. Plus, if he has a daughter...Not a good situation to be in. Oh, and STD's and pregnancies. Make sure you get tested between partners. I say you drop this guy. [ mmmsteph's advice column | Ask mmmsteph A Question ]
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