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I'm 20 years old, and I've been told by numerous people I give good advice. I'm a realist, I might tell you things you don't want to hear, but I promise they will be true. My intentions are to help you with my advice whether it makes you mad or not. Sometimes the best advice is the hardest to swallow. If you have a question for me feel free to ask, and I will answer to the best of my ability.
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I need ideas for youtube tutorials! I want to make some, but I'm not sure what I should do.
Well I mean people make tutorials about things that they are good at, or can do. You have tutorials on how to make things, how to do magic tricks, and really just about anything. Take me for example I do tutorials on how to play different songs on the piano, it's something I'm good at. Just find something that you can do, and make a video showing other people how.
I'm 17/f and I just recently started dating this guy who's also 17. I know I'm getting him a CD for Christmas but what else should I get him?
Thanks :)
Tickets to things are always a good idea. A concert or maybe a sporting event of some kind. My girlfriend got me tickets to a basketball game for us last year, I really liked that. Perhaps he's into video games, or maybe a movie he really loves but he doesn't own. Just some suggestions, I know how hard picking out gifts are.
How many calories does sex burn?
One hour of vigorous sex burns somewhere from 300 to 400 calories depending on where you get your info. They all seem to agree that it falls somewhere in between those two numbers
You can have more than one best friend can't you?
In life you will come to find that there are three or four friends who you can call your best friends. Those are the ones who stick by you no matter what. Some people may drift in and out, but not these. They are there for the good times, but they are also there when everyone else is just "too busy" to be bothered. These are the types of friends that will take your side even when they know you are wrong, and will fight if need be to help you out. :) To sum this long statement short, yes you can definitely have more than one best friend, and truthfully you probably should.
um this is a weird question but me and my friend argued over how big a dick needs to be to be deepthroated.... what do you think?
It's roughly four inches from your mouth to the back of your throat. I suppose anything much longer than that could be deep throated if the person so desired.
me and my boyfriend love dirty talking to each other when we can't be together, but lately he wont dirty talk back to me. im not sure why though. when i asked he just said that he couldnt think of anything to say. i was just wondering if there could be any other reason.
another thing is he always wants me to say dirty things to him, and i do. but he refuses to say anything dirty to me. i kinda feel like im just being used to help him get really turned on. what should i do?
Communication is always the best choice in any situation when you feel used. Usually the other person doesn't realize that they are doing it, and will feel bad that they caused you to feel that way. I expect he will apologize, and things will be back to normal in no time.
are there any songs, male or female artists, about wanting someone but never admitting it. preferably NOT country, but anythin else is fine:) thanks !
Crazy for this girl----Evan And Jaron
Over My Head----The Fray
Iris----Goo Goo Dolls
Can't Fight This Feeling----REO Speedwagon
Jessie's Girl----Rick Springfield
Everything you want----Vertical Horizon
Any of those would work really.
how can you get over someone? and how long does it usually take? some background info is: we dated for 15 months (broke up for 3, realized we couldn't do it then got back together), and were each other's first loves, we didn't have sex but he's the first guy who's ever seen me naked and i've ever been sexual with. i want to know an estimated time it will take to forget him.
we broke up a few days ago and i have this huge hole in my heart and i want it to just go away...(or at least until we start hanging out again in like a month) we agreed to hang out in a month and try to be friends and see where it picks up from there....so what can i do to just get him out of my headdd? :/
Time. I know that answer sucks, but trust me I know. There are few things to really help when you end a relationship like that. Been there a few times, really got my heart broken once, but all you can do is wait it out. It always gets better with time. Try hanging out with friends, or doing things that usually make you happy. Friends are your best bet; a good friend will know exactly what to do to make you feel better. Even if they can't they will be more than happy to just sit and stare at the wall with you. Just be patient it's only been a few days, give it a month or so and you will be feeling much better,
Get to feeling better.
Craig
so the boy i have a huge crush on might be coming to my house at christmas with his family. my parents an his are friends and my mom was talking about inviting then round one night after christmas, and was wondering what could i say, some good convo starters, so that we can get to know each other abit better, but the only problen is he has a girlfriend but weather they will still be together at christmas i dont know, any help please ?
Whether he has a girlfriend or not when you see him shouldn't affect the way you start this conversation. Talk to him as if you were talking to close friend; don't flirt. Instead go for your normal conversation starters. Try to find common ground; maybe you both like the same band, or movie. Try to pick topics that you know a lot about, and avoid pretending to understand things you don't. If he starts talking about a sport or something you have never seen or don't fully understand don't pretend to, because he will quickly realize you don't. If something of the sorts comes up just ask him to explain it. Show interest in things that he seems passionate about. Basically in this meeting you want to get to know each other, and you want to leave a lasting impression in his mind. When the relationship he is in ends, you want to be the first person he considers next. :)
19-female.
i've liked my best guy friend for like THREE yrs now .. crazy right??? it's just been such a complicated situation because he had a long time relationship with this girl so i didn't want to ruin that and tell him i had feelings for him. they're broken up now. he's actually tried getting with me. we were more touchy-feely if you want to call it that like a year ago. we would lay in a bed together and just cuddle and i would like rub his stomach and he would put his arm around my waist, it was very cute. he's also tried fingering me, but that was about two years ago and i didn't let him because i wasn't ready at that time. he's always giving me mixed signals though. we've never even kissed!! i think he tried to ONCE but i don't even know if we was going for that. basically we were on my bed and he was just sitting on it and i came and straddled him and put my arms around his neck and we were just flirting and we looked into each others eyes, and i think he was going to kiss me but i turned the other way and then i kissed his forehead .. stupid me!! now, we never spend alone time together we always end up seeing each other randomly with a group of people, which means that we don't have fun anymore :( i really want to go in for like a kiss. what if i pushed him against a wall and just looked at him and smiled, but then i would want him to actually make the move to kiss me. i dont know what to do!! i'm too scared to kiss him because what IF he doesn't want me to kiss him, and then our friendship would be awkward. how can i be flirty like i use to be? i think he's basically stopped flirting with me because i rejected him when he tried fingering me but i changed. what would you guys do?? is there something sexy i could do to get him excited and then i know he would make a move?
First thing: guys are simple creatures. Basically from your story I already know two things; one this guy likes you, and two he isn't sure whether you like him. It is easy for men to feel that a girl is just flirting with them, either because we are far too specious, or because we have had experience with this before. Obviously this guy is into you because no guy lies in a bed with a girl and cuddles unless they have feelings for them, but he is unsure of your feelings. I'm guessing he feels that you have turned him down twice, and doesn't know whether you really like him or not. I think the solution to your problem is communication. Talk to him; let him know that you like him, and that you're ready to take the leap from friendship to more. I'm sure you will find that he is just as ready as you are to take that leap.
Ok, so Im 19/f on the pill. But in the past month Ive missed a few just cause I get so distracted here at school (im in college). Me and my boyfriend have sex regularly and we dont use condoms ( I dont need the condom lecture, please). A couple weeks ago, we had sex and he thinks he came in me just a little. So that makes me nervous because I did miss a couple pills. Now, Ive been feeling kind of nauseous for the past week. And I feel really like grose and bloated, Ive also been moody. (Plus Im constipated, I know.... its grose) I know these are all symptoms of early pregnancy, but its not like Im making myself feel that way. I just happened to look up early symptoms for a paper I was writing and freaked out when I realized that all of them were applying to me. Do you think Im pregnant? Or what are the chances? My next period is a week and a half away. Any opinions would be helpful, thanks.
Okay first thing you need to do is calm down. Stressing out will only make your period come later, if it comes. Now let's talk science this should help you determine what your chances of being pregnant are. There is only one day a month that a women can get pregnant (there are some cases where women produce more than one egg a month, that is very rare.) An egg can only live for one day, if it is not fertilized it will die, but sperm can live inside of a female for three days. So really there is a three day window for pregnancy. The way you figure out that day is you look at your last two periods. Count the number of days between the beginning of the two, for example let's say 28 days. The egg is viable at the half point of your cycle. So sticking with our example count 14 days from the last day of your last period, and that would be close to when you're egg is ready. So if you had on that day, one day before, or two days before it not using any protection then you have a 50/50 chance of pregnancy. This science doesn't work every time though because women's cycles change so much, if you really want to know if you're pregnant then take a pregnancy test.
I hope everything goes the way you want, and I know you said no condom speech, but you should make your boyfriend take some responsibility in birth control too. It shouldn't have to be all you.