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how to get over someone
how can you get over someone? and how long does it usually take? some background info is: we dated for 15 months (broke up for 3, realized we couldn't do it then got back together), and were each other's first loves, we didn't have sex but he's the first guy who's ever seen me naked and i've ever been sexual with. i want to know an estimated time it will take to forget him.
we broke up a few days ago and i have this huge hole in my heart and i want it to just go away...(or at least until we start hanging out again in like a month) we agreed to hang out in a month and try to be friends and see where it picks up from there....so what can i do to just get him out of my headdd? :/
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Time. I know that answer sucks, but trust me I know. There are few things to really help when you end a relationship like that. Been there a few times, really got my heart broken once, but all you can do is wait it out. It always gets better with time. Try hanging out with friends, or doing things that usually make you happy. Friends are your best bet; a good friend will know exactly what to do to make you feel better. Even if they can't they will be more than happy to just sit and stare at the wall with you. Just be patient it's only been a few days, give it a month or so and you will be feeling much better,
Get to feeling better.
Craig
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I'm so sorry. Feel better =/
-Laura (17-f)
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Getting over him is going to take a while because it seems like you two were really close. You can get over him by directig your focus on someone or something else. Try getiing a new hobbie or somethig that will keep your mind off of him. I think that you seeing each other again on a month
Wasn't the best of ideas but if you think that in a month you will be ready than go head. Hope my advice helped.
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Hi :)
So you guys were pretty serious... To be honest there is no specific time limit when it comes to the heart. Whether it's how much time it would take to fall in love, or forget the one you love. If you guys had lots of ups and downs and you truly loved him, the thought of even being with another man will be hard, and vice versa. Give yourself time to get over the relationship, and even if you feel ready, don't jump into another relationship quickly. Try to meet people when you're ready but as friends, get to know them, and so on.
You guys want to hang out in one month, and i don't think that was a good idea. Now, you two will be waiting until that month is done, and all the waiting will lead to happiness when you see him and you two might end up back together. It might not be a bad thing though. Maybe you two should stay together. You didnt state why you two broke up.
Well, good luck and I hope I helped =}
Uniq
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