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what to do?
help me out here of what to do if you can.(:
so there is this guy who i really like and who likes me. we have known eachother for like a year or so and we have talked talked a couple times but this time it was for real, we would be textinng almost everyday of every second. and this week he has came see me everyday. but now he just wont even talk to me. he tells me that he wants me to tell him how i feel and about my problems so that he can atleast try to help and i do tell him but two nights ago he was over and i just started ignoring him and being really quiet and he asked me what is wrong and i told him that i feel like he is using me because he dont bother to ask me out or anything, we act like we date, we kiss all the time and hold hands and all but he just dont bother to ask me out. my friend said that i am his make out buddy but i do kinda feel like it. i know that he likes me and that he isnt using me but i dont know what it is. yesterday i texted him asking if he even wants to date me and he said i do.. just not now and i asked why and he said just dont and i told him to tell me but he didnt reply but then later we talked on the phone for like one hour and nothing wrong but if i text him, he wont text back. i just want to know why he dont want to date. it dont make sense. and sometimes i feel like that im chasing him to much. sorry that its long. i rate 5.
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I guess I would give it a little while to see how it plays out. He might just be waiting for the right time to ask you out. But it really sounds to me like he doesn't want to commit to a relationship. He wants to have all the aspects of a relationship minus the title that ties you down from talking to or seeing other people. If he can play boyfriend to you and still get away with being technically single, why wouldn't he?
If he doesn't ask you out in the next couple weeks, you should try asking him out. If he says no or says he doesn't want to right now, don't waste your time with it. If he wanted to be your boyfriend, he would do it now while he has his chance.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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let it be for a while. if it really bothers you, tell him that you dont wanna make out until he asks you out because hes leadin you on (or fill in how you feel).
just stop textin him though until he texts you first.
he might just be usin you because obviously hes not askin you out but still tryin to do things with you that a couple would.
i say you either move on and let him chase you, or find out why he doesnt want to date you.
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x sweeethoney
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I'd give him a chance and wouldn't jump to conclusions everyone deserves chances at least one even him things could change be patient wait
and see what happens be postive thinking negative makes not only yourself feel worst but the situation worst too he could be busy i don't think
he'd ignore you seeing as you two have been through alot together try and confront him about
how you feel maybe that will make him stop acting
the way he is and he'll act differently towards you :)
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