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what to say to him
so the boy i have a huge crush on might be coming to my house at christmas with his family. my parents an his are friends and my mom was talking about inviting then round one night after christmas, and was wondering what could i say, some good convo starters, so that we can get to know each other abit better, but the only problen is he has a girlfriend but weather they will still be together at christmas i dont know, any help please ?
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Whether he has a girlfriend or not when you see him shouldn't affect the way you start this conversation. Talk to him as if you were talking to close friend; don't flirt. Instead go for your normal conversation starters. Try to find common ground; maybe you both like the same band, or movie. Try to pick topics that you know a lot about, and avoid pretending to understand things you don't. If he starts talking about a sport or something you have never seen or don't fully understand don't pretend to, because he will quickly realize you don't. If something of the sorts comes up just ask him to explain it. Show interest in things that he seems passionate about. Basically in this meeting you want to get to know each other, and you want to leave a lasting impression in his mind. When the relationship he is in ends, you want to be the first person he considers next. :)
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First of all, he has a g/f so you shouldnt really be planning ways to talk him up. Imagine if he were your b/f and some girl started flirting with him, how would you feel? It's not only your feelings you are deeling with; it's yours, his and hers. There's a 60/40 chance he will still be dating her by Christmas. That being said, it's still okay to establish a friendship with him--this might be unpleasurable at times, but at least you will be in his life. Some good conversation starters would some about school, music, occupation, animals, friends, favorite restaurantes, what they got for Christmas, etc. Just make sure you aren't too flirty when you talk to him (in the case that he is still in a relationship) or you may drive him away from you.
Hope I helped!
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Divine...
True Example: it this guy in my church w?h i was
completely head over hills couldn't stop thinking
about him so just last sunday I went to church and
I happen to see him and his girlfriend and baby
(I know baby) that was a shocking but I had to drop the fact that I couldn't talk to him...but I could just assoicate with him....
the whole point of this is you know that he
1.have a girlfriend
2.coming to your place
3.you like him alot
but the question is how will you react to it
will let your body desire what it want or will you let your mind direct you into doing the right thing I hope that you let your mind direct you...
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