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My relationship with him a total lie?
I'm now starting to question my relationship with my supposed "amazing" boyfriend. He acts completely different with me than with his guy friends. He treats me like a princess and does everything a good boyfriend should when he's with me and I love it. When he's with his friends he turns out to be an *** and a douche bag. He talks like SON ARE YOU WHIPPED ON HER?! or like he calls his friends F-A-G-S :/ wtf and they all just act like douche bags together. He talks about me like I'm a freaking accesory rather than a girlfriend. They talked about if I like to take charge and ride him on top WTF?! I wasn't even there when they were talking about this but my friend said he heard them talking about me/other girls like that. I was really pissed off by that. First of all I WAS OPEN WITH THIS GUY ABOUT PRACTICALLY EVERYTHING MOST GUYS DON'T EVEN GET PASS A FIRST DATE WITH ME. I'M THAT PICKY AND VAIN WHEN IT COMES TO BOYS. HE'S SUPPOSEDLY OPEN WITH ME TOO. WHO KNOWS MAYBE HE LIED ABOUT HIS PAST ALSO! I'm starting to question him and our whole relationship. I'm freaking out. I really really like him like A LOT. ENOUGH TO ACTUALLY BRING HIM HOME TO MY PARENTS TO MY MOM'S BIG SOCIAL EVENT with all these gross socialites in Socal. Any help?? What should I do?
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Guys are different when with friends, but that situation can be helped. It is possible for your boyfriend to say that he doesn't kiss & tell and that what you guys do in the bedroom or when together at all is none of their business.
If he can't be respectful both when you're with him & when you're away, he doesn't deserve you. It's completely possible for him to not talk about that stuff with his friends, he just chooses not to.
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How a guy acts with his girlfriend, and how a guy acts with his guy friends are flipped pictures. Guys have to impress guys, on occassion by trying to be the biggest dousche in the room. It is ridiculous, but they see the two situations as completely seperate. They also talk about filthy things when it is just the guys, it's what they do, and really can't be helped.
Don't think that how he acts when he is alone with you is a lie, it isn't, but he can't look whipped in front of his friends, that would make him look bad. He has to keep up his fascade.
I would talk to him. Tell him that you don't want to date a jerk. Respect means something to you. I hope this helps.
Best wishes.
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