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he says im too clingy...


Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 2:43 am

I am a 18 year old girl, and i have been dating this 20 year old. we have been together for 2 months and when we first started talking he wouldnt let me have a day to myself, he always wanted to be around me. All we do is party or after work one of us will go to the others house and we watch movies. Now that i started school in the mornings and i work in the afternoon i get to see him twice a week. last night at new years everything was fine, i wake up this morning and everything is fine and hour after he drops me off at home he says "we need to talk" and says that i am being too clingy and that im getting on his nervous. I see him twice a week how am i clingy??!!!??? I dont get it.

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I am in a relationship and i want to know if its illegal


Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 1:08 am

If I am a 16 year old guy and I'm going out with a guy that is 20 is it illegal if it is will I be able to be with him when i turn 17

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help with girls


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 10:38 pm

m/16.. what things can i go to or join to help me meet new girls, cuz i go to an all boys school and most of my friends r like me wher we know very few girls... its not that i hav a tough time becomming friends with girls and talking to them its just that i just rarely ever get a chance to talk to or do somthing with girls....

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Dating advice


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 8:10 pm

it has been a long time since i dating anyone or even approached someone. I am 21(not a nerd) and male and don't have alot of self confidence. What do i need to do to keep someone interested in me?

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Being used, maybe?


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 7:15 pm

Not actually 'with' this guy, we just hang out/ text and stuff, only when we do, it;s never really great or good conversation, it's mostly just physical stuff..He only really texts when he wants something, and seems uninterested, I'm not dumb, I'm thinking to ditch this guy.
Opinions?

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haha, love...


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 3:44 pm

Alright so I'm a fourteen year old girl and my boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating almost three months and my boyfriend has already said he loved me... The first time he said it, I of course, wasn't thinking and I said it back. Unless this has happened to you, you dont understand. When everything goes quiet and he says "I love you" and there is just that looming feeling in the air that its say-it-or-don't its just... hard! Its almost impossible to not say it back. But I'm too young to be in love right? And its too soon? Ive known him for a lot longer than three months but still, its too soon right? I can't actually be in love, and now I'm stuck. Because I can't keep saying it if I don't love him or even if I don't know. And I ...

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boyfriend


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 2:15 pm

ok well, me and this kid have been dating for 3 weeks now and we meet about a month and a half ago. since we met hes been fine w/me and always says the nicest things and hes so respectful.. but in the past few days hes been weird and short w/ me and i cant even tell if he stil likes me sometimes. hes hot and cold and during these days he'll be short but then randomly say i miss u or call me babe or something. and he still texts me first thing in the morning all the time. idk what to do, can someone please help me? i dont want to say somethnig and sound hostile w/ him.. help.

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does my ex still love me


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 2:08 pm

So me and my high school sweetheart broke up my freshman year in college but have always remained friends its been about seven years since we were last together he came in town to visit his brother for christmas and I saw him and we kissed and now all these old feelings have came rushing back to me we spent our time together laughing and remembering old times he keep looking in my eyes and kissing my forehead and were holding each other but didn't have sex do u think he still loves me because I really miss him

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commitment phobe


Posted Friday January 1 2010, 1:43 am

I want a relationship soooooo bad.
but i cant seem to stay in a relationship once i have one.
"He stops all the flirting stuff" "Hes taking the relationship to seriously" "Hes to clingy" "Hes not clingy enough"
Am i a commitment phobe?
and if so, how can i fix it?

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idono. please help me.


Posted Thursday December 31 2009, 7:39 pm

I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.

advice please:)

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still hurt over ex


Posted Thursday December 31 2009, 3:19 am

ok iwas datng a guy for almost a month after we had been talking and friends for like 3 months im 17 and hes 20 idc about age and he broke up with me and idk how to like get over it bc i know its weird but he was my first kiss and i started to really trust him and i found out later he let me for a 45 yr old :( so i don't know what to do im so hurt by what he did i trusted him and i thought we were starting to actually love each other. his excuse for the break up is that we were to different and it wouldn't last no matter how much we loved each other i just don't know what to do :( i tried talking to him like a week after he broke up with me and he said he needed sum space so i feel like all he wanted me for was sex and thank god i didn't im just so hurt by him .

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"losing" my girlfriend of a year, or not losing her at all?


Posted Thursday December 31 2009, 2:51 am

F/17. I dated this girl who I met in my freshman year starting in September of sophomore year. Now, I'm halfway through junior year. We fell in love over the course of an English project in which I was playing the role of her husband. Well, things blossomed and we officially began dating. But her mom and everyone reacted badly, and things fell apart. I was totally devastated but came to terms when we decided to be together secretly without the title. But a month ago, her friends set her up with a boy and she really liked him. Now, they're dating and she's losing interest in me. I'm still so in love with her and she assures me she's not leaving but I don't know. What can I do to get through this? Is she finished being with me? She does every...

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new to the boyfriend thing...


Posted Thursday December 31 2009, 2:08 am

Okay so here's the deal... I'm fourteen, girl and I'm a freshman in highschool. I recently started dating a sixteen year old boy, sophomore. He's great and what not and weve been dating for a little over two months. The problem is this... Our town sucks. Haha, like really. There is nothing to do besides see a movie or go bowling. Weve done some fun stuff, like midnight sledding and guitar hero fests, haha, but its just hard to find exciting stuff to do around here... And the past few times weve hung out its just been chilling in one of our basements watching a movie. So its gotten pretty dry (not the relationship, the relationship is great) were just kinda bored... any ideas??

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i'm so confused i don't know what to do with him.


Posted Thursday December 31 2009, 2:06 am

- f / 14

hey, so this is whats up.
this guys is into to me, & he likes me a lotttt but i just don't know at all how i feel about him, cause, i hung out with him tonight and he was hinting that he liked me and such and in my head i was like hm, i really don't know how i feel about this kid cause, i'm the type of girl who hooks-up with guys but. doesn't really want relationships.
& never likes to be tied down cause i feel it's too easy to get hurt that way, so we were in his car and he was on the phone with his friend who's house we were going to, and he was like yoo i'm with my girl and i was like ..... what. and i was like were best friends silly jokingly and he was like no i never said that, and i just ...

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eating me out.


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 8:59 pm

so,i want my boyfriend to eat me out but i dont know how i should look "down there." im embarrased but i want to do it at the same time.

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I want to kiss him but. . . . . .


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 6:47 pm

I am going to be hanging out with a friend this weekend who I really like and who turns me on. We're both attracted to each other but I want to make a move on him. How do I cross the line without being cheesy and how do I deal with it if he turns me down?

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I am sick of being "just friends" with my exboyfriend


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 6:24 pm

My boyfriend and I broke up because of stress being put on him by his family which caused us not to see each other much and although I tried to understand, I was still hurt by us never getting to spend time together. Now we are broken up but still good friends. I think taking time off from the relationship has helped us. He said he would like to "try again" when his family issues are resolved, but I don't know how long that will be and I really miss us being together. How can I convince him I want to help and not hinder? I just want us to be able to be more than friends again...

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mixed signals?


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 3:07 pm

what does it mean when a guy texts you, and you respond, but then he doesn't text back?

he has a girl. and he knows i like him.
what do i do?

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i have a question


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 3:02 pm

i know this may sound dumb but what does spooning mean

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What is going on in her mind? Is there a chance of her coming back?


Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 1:23 pm

(M, 24)My girlfriend broke up with me recently after a 3 year relationship. She brought up moving in together and engagement regularly, I wanted the same, I loved her very much and wanted to spend my life with her (she knew this). However, I was paying off loans and did not have the money to take that step yet. She knew that I would be done with them in 2 months and could then proceed. We were all set to go on a trip together with friends which had been planned out for a few months and she was really excited about it. She had just started a new job and had been there a week, I noticed her not talking as much as before. We talked and she said she may not want those things anymore. By the end of the weekend everything seemed fine considering ...

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