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I want to kiss him but. . . . . .
I am going to be hanging out with a friend this weekend who I really like and who turns me on. We're both attracted to each other but I want to make a move on him. How do I cross the line without being cheesy and how do I deal with it if he turns me down?
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aww :] thats cute !
okay, heres my idea..
if you both are sitting down, and just chilling out, move a little closer to him and look into his eyes. the move your eyes from his, to his lips, and look at them for a few seconds, then go back up to his eyes, and then back down to his lips, but make sure you concetrate on his lips alot. he'll get the hint, and may even make a move first :] but if he doesnt, then look away from his lips quickly and laugh [like a cute giggle] he'll probably say, "ooh whats so funny?" and you can just be like nothing and then look at him again, then be like, "i think im losing my mind haha, i need a hug." then youll give eachother a hug, and kiss him on the cheek. he may be like what was that for? and smile, just say, "because i wanted to :]" then go closer to his face and continue and say, "is that a problemm :] ?" [make sure you smile] then kiss his cheek, right by the corners of his mouth, and if he backs away, just smile, play it cool and sit back, and look straight ahead of you, but if he doesnt move away, then kiss him again, but this time on his lips and see how it goes from there :]
if he rejects you, dont worry about it.. he might have just been nervous but if hes not ino you like that, its okay. there are other giys :]
good luck ! have fun, and dont sweat it, just act on your impulses. if you need anything else, fell free to inbox me, xxo.
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Okay Okay! Something really good to get the hint to him is hug him and don't let go. Kind of like a side-ish hug, but enough to put your head on the inside of his shoulder! Keep saying "i'm not letting go! I'm not letting go!" And then after a little while of doing that, peck him on the cheek. The rest will fall into place :] This worked with my best friend (now my boyfriend) And it's a cute way to get that kiss :] Hope I helped!
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Kissing is a hard subject. You pretty much just have to wait for the right time. If he turns away, or says no or something, just think, its ok, because there are so many other guys in the world, and one of them is meant for you, and it just isnt this one.
When my (now ex) boyfriend and i were going out he was soo cheesy! For making out he was like... "Do you want to kiss how they do in france?" but it really just depends on what he likes. if he likes cheesy go for that.
but i think the best thing would be to wait for the right moment, and dont say anything, just do. lean in going for the kiss, and if he leans toward you, kiss him.
Hope i helped! Good luck, and if it works hope you have fun ;)
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