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still hurt over ex
ok iwas datng a guy for almost a month after we had been talking and friends for like 3 months im 17 and hes 20 idc about age and he broke up with me and idk how to like get over it bc i know its weird but he was my first kiss and i started to really trust him and i found out later he let me for a 45 yr old :( so i don't know what to do im so hurt by what he did i trusted him and i thought we were starting to actually love each other. his excuse for the break up is that we were to different and it wouldn't last no matter how much we loved each other i just don't know what to do :( i tried talking to him like a week after he broke up with me and he said he needed sum space so i feel like all he wanted me for was sex and thank god i didn't im just so hurt by him .
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im the same position your in, except my girlfreind left for university. im 18 she's 19. Ever since that day iv missed her, thought about her, written songs to do with the time we spent. It hurts to think we probably wont be together again ever after her course is up because she found some one else. it hurt's.. god damn it does. but what makes us stronger is not to swell our emotions on this one thing. This on thing is but a single line in a mass puzzle called love that everyone gets them selves in to at some point or another. Be thankfull you still have your purity, you can wait and save it for some one you really really care for. you'll know when the time is right. i lost my viriginty to my ex who left me. i trusted her with every little bit i had not to break my heart and it still ended up that way.
If he's truely made his mind up about not wanting to be with you, theres not alot you can do im affraid. take as much time as you need to get over it dont let people be dicks about it by saying stuff "God its been 2 months allready get over it" its been 3 months for me tryin to get over my ex, and although that short month and a half we spent together was the happiest iv been in a long time (about 7 years i hadnt had a gf for that long) i wouldnt forget it nor give up those same feelings for any substitute.
if at all possible, try to stay away from the lovey dovey types of things. things that remind you of him and stuff like that. it'll only prolong the healing process.
hope iv been of some help, i feel iv gotten alot of my chest rather than helped some one... sorry :s
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every girl has this one guy that they cant get over. he was your first love. in order to get over him it is going to take some time. But you have to think about all the good things you have in your life and it sounds like he wasnt the greatest guy around. they are going to be soo many more guys out there. your only 17, you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone. in the meantime just have fun and dont let this one guy get you down. i believe that everything happens for a reason...so maybe its better that things ended when they did cause who knows you could of gotten even more hurt that you are now. things will get better don't worry. hope this helped.
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I also had the problem of having to get over someone i loved.
The only thing i can really tell you, that wont get all of the love and good feelings away, but what really helped me, think of EVERY bad thing about him. He hurt you, let you for a 45 yr old, lied to you, and probably just wanted you for sex. concentrate on all the bad things he did.
That will help, though it can lead to hating him, but sometimes its for your own good to hate someone.
I hope I helped, and im sorry if that wasnt the type of answer you wanted. If you have any more questions, im here for you!
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first you should care about age because most guy think that they're older then they are....meaning they all want to be grown...your ex is young and still doesnt know what he wants thats why he dated someone 17, you, then somone 45, her, so should really try to let it go, besides you only knew this guy for 4 months. if he cares about you at all he will come to you but dont hurt yourself over it, it will only make you sick.
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