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"losing" my girlfriend of a year, or not losing her at all?
F/17. I dated this girl who I met in my freshman year starting in September of sophomore year. Now, I'm halfway through junior year. We fell in love over the course of an English project in which I was playing the role of her husband. Well, things blossomed and we officially began dating. But her mom and everyone reacted badly, and things fell apart. I was totally devastated but came to terms when we decided to be together secretly without the title. But a month ago, her friends set her up with a boy and she really liked him. Now, they're dating and she's losing interest in me. I'm still so in love with her and she assures me she's not leaving but I don't know. What can I do to get through this? Is she finished being with me? She does everything for me. She buys me necessities, feeds me, etc. I need specific instructions on what I can do to get through this whichever way it plays out. I have the tendency to be unable to cope well, and have self injured in the past, I don't want to go back to that. I also have separation anxiety where she's concerned. It's really strong. My therapist just doesn't help. Sorry this is ling, but can you please tell me what to do and how? Thanks.
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So, it sounds to me taht this girl is going through the '"I'm tired of pretending...I don't really think I loved him anyway'" stange. Come on BOY! You gotta prove her wrong! Do to her what she's doing to you. Grab one of your good girlish friends and pretend to start something with them. Let 'her' catch you hugging or holding hands. Be subtle, because if she sees you kissing or making out it might make her a little too mad...after that I promise you if she loves you at all then she will realize she doesn't want to lose you and be all yours honey! I hope that helps you out!
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