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E-mail: ashley.sims.1990@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: minnesota
Age: 18
Yahoo: ashley_sims_nicole@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 27, 2009
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ok iwas datng a guy for almost a month after we had been talking and friends for like 3 months im 17 and hes 20 idc about age and he broke up with me and idk how to like get over it bc i know its weird but he was my first kiss and i started to really trust him and i found out later he let me for a 45 yr old :( so i don't know what to do im so hurt by what he did i trusted him and i thought we were starting to actually love each other. his excuse for the break up is that we were to different and it wouldn't last no matter how much we loved each other i just don't know what to do :( i tried talking to him like a week after he broke up with me and he said he needed sum space so i feel like all he wanted me for was sex and thank god i didn't im just so hurt by him . (link)
first you should care about age because most guy think that they're older then they are....meaning they all want to be grown...your ex is young and still doesnt know what he wants thats why he dated someone 17, you, then somone 45, her, so should really try to let it go, besides you only knew this guy for 4 months. if he cares about you at all he will come to you but dont hurt yourself over it, it will only make you sick.


so my friend fingered me a while ago. it felt good and everything, but it was the first time. 2 nights ago he asked me how it felt and i told him it felt good and he asked how did it feel good. I can't really explain how it felt good. i told him i'd give him an answer, i just don't know how to explain it, any help? (link)
there isnt really a way to explain how fingering feels good it just does tell him that lol he will laugh


how do you get someone to forgive you. Ok so this guy likes me and I haven't texted him in about one month because I got my phone taken away. so on thanksgiving he texted me saying happy thanksgivig and I texted him back because I had jus gotten my phone the night before. So then I texted him and he won't text back. He probably thinks I am a liar but I'm not. What's even worse is that I promise him that when I got my phone back I would text him by I didn't. :( how can I get him to forgive me? Please help me (link)
you dont really have a problem...he dosent really need to forgive you because you havent really done anything wrong..give him a while he might not even be mad at you


18/female. if this is long, sorry! i'll be thankful if you can help though and return the favor.

i've had a "thing" you could say with this guy for about 3 years now. well ... he's basically like my best friend. we're both attracted to each other its obvious but i mean nothing really ever comes of it. i guess either of us don't really want a relationship, but we love spending time with each other. we flirt all the time. he's the only guy i can TRUST and thats huge because i have the worst trust issue ever. we haven't had sex yet .. but he will randomly text me and say like "wanna fuck" and of course i'd do him in a second ;) and so i say something like ... "hell ya!!" but usually i'm at someones house so i'll be like "too bad im at so and so's house.." and then he will just be like haha or something. i'd say something more sexier if you would say, but i feel like when i see him it may be a bit awkward. when he texts me asking if i want to have sex and i say like hell yeah or something, and then i see him, i try and not make it awkward and just start being myself and being goofy:) i want to go further with him, i really wouldn't mind having sex with him but it seems like he is holding back!! and he's not a virgin either, so i dont know what the deal is?? do you think he's scared?? he calls me a tease sometimes, probably because i say i'll do something with him but i never did. the problem is that he tried going down my pants like two years ago and i wouldnt let him because i wasnt ready for that, but now i am!! what can i say to him that will make him KNOW i want him, and am willing to go further with him? how can i make it happen? i feel like it would be weird if i texted him asking to have sex .. but when he texts me that and i open the text .. i smile haha which may sound weird but it makes me happy. is there something i can text him to make him know i am ready for him? or say to him when i see him? usually when i do see him we're hanging out with a group of people so we don't really flirt that much or anything. ahhh!:( what to do.. (link)
well if you really wanna have sex with him you should make the first move..


Okay, I'm kind of a shy person, so I don't really ask my boyfriend for what I want. I got him out of being shy, but I don't know how since I'm shy! I want him to kiss me really passionately, but I can't just go up and ask him! help me! (link)
you should make the first move...suprise me with a kiss and take it from there....guys like that


Well this is kind of embarrassing to ask but, can you get loose from masturbating? (link)
not unless your whole hand goes up there otherwise youre good.


alright im on the birth control monanesa. I had sex with my bf last night and he came in me. I was wondering if anyone knew the chances of pregnacy with this type of birth control. Also im about two weeks in to the pills if that has anything to do with it. (link)
im also on the pill...its good you waited 2 weeks for him to do that because if you didnt you could have a problem....i have been on been on the pill for over a year.....as long as you take your pills on time when your supposed to you will be fine


my sister and i got in a huge physical fight today. she started punching me and tried knocking my door down with a fieldhockey stick in her hand. I imed my boyfriend of over a year, begging him to pick me up and help me and get me out of my house before it got worse, and he was like whatever make peace with her i got to go. i dont know what to do, was that assholeish of him or no? (link)
that was a huge ass hole move very big....he should have helped but talk to him about it and ask him what was his deal????....ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years sometimes they can be jerks and have good reasons for it...but you should talk to him about what happend


So I want to do something new to my hair and I'm thinking of getting a body spiral perm to look like Taylor Swifts hair. (Yes, I know it is naturally that way) But I have asked everybody about getting one and some say 'Sure, you would look good with curly hair!" Then same say 'NO! Bad idea, It damages your hair!" And my head is just spinning with confusion on what to do. Can I get someone who knows a lot about perms (like a hair stylist) to help me out. You dont have to be but I would much like that. Thank you so much! (link)
while perming your hair can be GREAT you dont want to do it too often because it will damage your hair but once wont hurt....hope i helped




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