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i'm so confused i don't know what to do with him.
- f / 14
hey, so this is whats up.
this guys is into to me, & he likes me a lotttt but i just don't know at all how i feel about him, cause, i hung out with him tonight and he was hinting that he liked me and such and in my head i was like hm, i really don't know how i feel about this kid cause, i'm the type of girl who hooks-up with guys but. doesn't really want relationships.
& never likes to be tied down cause i feel it's too easy to get hurt that way, so we were in his car and he was on the phone with his friend who's house we were going to, and he was like yoo i'm with my girl and i was like ..... what. and i was like were best friends silly jokingly and he was like no i never said that, and i just ignored it and went on with the night and then we were at his friends house and he was like putting his arm around me and shit, and i was just like uhh. i don't know ! in my head. & he already asked me out in the past so i know he's into me a lot and he asked me out, and i said i don't know... and he wanted a yes or no answer and i couldn't give it to him. then later on that night after he dropped me off i texted him and i was like, are we hanging out tomorrow best friend? and he was like, listen. i'm not your friend i don't need a friend i need something more then that. & i didn't reply i don't know how to make up my mind i just don't what to do hes liked me for a while now, and i don't want to hurt him and leave him hanging i just don't know what to do, if were friends with benefits that would be weird for me i think because, i find if it doesn't work out as friend with benefits then it would just become award, so please help me i don't know how to make up my mind or what to do or say to him, i just don't wanna hurt him cause, i'm just not the type of girl to be tied down and he seems like he would tie me down. please help!
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Well even if you don't think your leading him on you are. You know the answer. I'm surprised he didn't pick it up. You don't want him if you did you would have said yes the first time. You said it youself that your not into that relationship thing. And if you just want to say yes to be nice don't it won't help anyone in the long run.
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You know what you want to do. You don't want a relationship with the guy. So quit leaving him hanging and giving him false hope, because you're being cruel. Just tell him you don't want a relationship with him. It's not that difficult.
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