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is it just friends?
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 5:30 pm
okay, so i'm pretty good friends with this guy i like.
and sometimes i get the feeling he may like me but othertimes i feel like it's just friends.
last night, he imed me and said i should call him, so i did and we ended up talking for 4 hours, until 2am.
and like we just chatted and discussed things while he played call of duty and stuff.
i don't know if i should just think this is friends, or if there is a chance it's something more?
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Poor self-image
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 5:29 pm
I have a really bad self-image, i think im fat, im tall, i am rubbish at sports, hate my body and i started middle school with a really bad reputation, i really want a boyfriend, but ive been told that i wont get one if i dont like myself, what sould i do? PS: 14/f i sing, act (really cant dance), size 12-lost 3 stone in 2 months after bullying and im 180cm
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i cant stop thinking about him..i feel like im gonna go insane !!
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 5:08 pm
18 f
Hey guys sry if its long but I'd appreciate the help !
So about 2 months ago I was in the train and I saw a gorgeous guy
He started looking back at me and we exchanged glances and
Even a couple of smiles. Then like 10 mins later he comes a little
Closer and says hi my name is nate and he asks for my name
And was just a total gentlemen and looked really sweet.
Then when he was about to get of asked for my number to keep
In touch. I was so excited because he was a total cutie.
Btw, before he left he invited me to a club. Now that isn't
Something I normally do. I'm a total romantic girl I love going
Out to dinner with my guy or going to watch a movie.
S...
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Long distance relationship..help?
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 11:13 am
My Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and since early december he's been at his parents, so we've had even less time to talk than usual. (which isnt much)
Today is my birthday, and tomorrow is our 6 months. I told him I'd be busy today but would love to squeeze in a quick chat sometime during the day. He told me he won't be able to chat today, due to 'guy time' at the house.
So, alright. Then he tells me he can't chat tomorrow either (our 6 month). We don't celebrate every month anniversaries, but I'd like to at least talk to him on our 6th. :/ He can't talk for a little bit tmrw because it's his last day there, so he said he'll be busy packing?
I just feel like I'm the...
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I'm pretty sure I love him...BUT.
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 6:50 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating two months or so, and I've known him for a good year. We were great friends while I was in a relationship with my ex, and once I broke up with said ex, he was there to talk to me and make me laugh.
During this period when I was single, I fell for two different guys; one, an adorable lil' guy that was another friend, but he had a boyfriend (bisexual). The other, my best friend's ex, a gorgeous sex god that seemed to be flirting with me a lot more than usual.
Either way. In the end, those two never made a move...but my new boyfriend did. He asked me out, and I can say that now I am thoroughly smitten with him. We've done the whole 'I love you' thing, go places together, and tal...
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Strange
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 6:49 pm
I'm pretty sure what this means, but I would rather like to get a second opinion.
This guy I like, Timothy, has been one of my closest friends for about 3 years. We talk every day at school and know each other really well.
The problem is that ever since I met him I've had a very hard time keeping my hands to myself. Not in a, "I'm totally sexually attracted to him," way, either. It's more of having to fight myself to grab his hand or lean my had on his shoulder, or even wrap my arms around him. It's been a problem for a while now, as you can tell, and I would like some people's opinions on this.
Thank you for your time and effort.
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nothing ever works out
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 6:38 pm
why didn't ever work out in my love life I always screw up. Last year I liked this guy and to get to the point he didn't like me back and that broke my heart. :( This year I liked this guy and he liked me. He then told me he liked my friend. I wasn't going to tell him I liked him so I was stupid enough to tell him to go for it. :( Now him and my friend are going out and I feel sooooo bad. I feel like a faluire. I mean come on I like my friends boyfriend I don't know what to do.please don't tell me to stay away from him because I am doing that right now but I feel terrible. I always fall for the wrong guys. Help me is it me? I mean barely any guys ask me out and there are guys I know like me but with out knowing It I somehow manage to push t...
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Long distance blows
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 5:12 pm
Hey so i'm currently living a few thousand miles away from my ex boyfriend. when i moved here we decided to break up because it was so difficult to keep up with school and a relationship. we still ended up talking all the time though and we still liked each other. he asked me if it was okay if he could as this girl out who he'd been liking for a couple months (after we broke up) and who he'd been talking to often. i said it was okay cause im happy hes moved on and is happy, but the biggest part of me is so upset right now and doesn't know how to get over it because i love him so much and now he's with someone else. what do i do to help me get over him :(
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meaningful gifts
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 4:25 pm
What are some meaningful gifts i can give to my boyfriend? I have already given him a scrap book of us for our 6 month anniversary, and our one year is coming up in 3 weeks, ive given him many things dealing with his interests and ive given him clothes. he doesnt like jewelry...any ideas?
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Guy I like, don't know how to bring it up ...
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 2:12 pm
I'm 15/Female
The guy I like, we'll call him Tyler. Tyler and I have a really long history... when we first met, we were living together at a flop house, and ended up sleeping together. Then we fought and didnt talk for a week or two... then I got pregnant, so we worked everything out. I was almost 2 months along when I miscarried our kid. So then we stayed friends, but never really talked much because we both left the flop house to go back to our parents. We came together when he got arrested, and he got out of jail and I went to visit him at his place, and from then on, we chilled every single day for about 4 months or so. Then we got into some stupid shit together, and ended up with a non-assossiation orde and didn't talk...
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Totally unexpected.
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 1:40 pm
ok so this is wierd as hell, a few days ago i met this girl who is one of my freinds best freinds (i think :S) but shes just sooo bubbley and has a really nice smile. i have no idea why my feelings have placed them selves on her, i dont know her, i dunno what i find intesting about her its all just a big mush of lonelyness and needy-ness.
My gf moved for university about 3-4 months ago now and now im finnaly gettin over her not being around my mind lands another good load of "heres who your probably never gonna get"
i wanna get to know her a bit better, but from just what i heard from my freind today i dont know whats going on with them both. she apparently sleeps round his all the time but they'r not going...
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idk if my boys cheating on me :(
Posted Friday January 8 2010, 12:40 am
weve ben going out a year and a half and were extremely close. him and my bestfriend fell in "love" and hungout alot without me. i still dont know if they did anything. but that was about two months ago, and once again hes acting like he doesnt know me he didnt even get me a christmas present or even feel bad about it. he keeps cancelling plans on me. i have two exs and they both cheated on me i cant take it if he does it too. but he acts like he loves me so much when were ever together alone. today and tomarrow we have snowdays and were gona hangout all day and he cancelled on me both days and saturday. help? i cant handle this, he acts like im his world and his true love, half the time..
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should i..
Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 10:12 pm
17/f i'm really shy & have trouble talking to boys, well this one boy that i thought was really cute last year, was a senior & i was a junior. we never talked though. he didn't have any friends, because he just came here, i always tried to get up the courage to talk to him, but i couldn't. well anyway, i found his myspace. & i'm debating.. do i send him a friend request? or would that look so creepy? because i feel like he remembers me from last year, because we exchanged eye contact quite alot. but i don't know. & i was thinking i would just comment on his art. he is really shy like me & it still doesn't look like he has many friends. so i can't even ask anyone to introduce me or anything..
what should i...
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im in love with my stepbrother...what should i do?? continued..
Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 6:16 pm
ok, if you are reading this you probably have already read the first part and know pretty much the whole story..
so recently my stepmom and dad got into a huge fight. my dad was working that day so i went over to comfort her. she told me she talked to her younger son, 16, (my stepbrother). she told me that he said something about me. She said he said " it hurts him to see me going through all this drama all over again, considering ive seen my mother suffer because of my dad and now to see my stepmom who is also my bestfriend suffering is like the past repeating itself. he also supposably said that he feels that i am part of his family because they suffered all their lives like i have.. also stating that i am brave, kind,...
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Does he like me or not? playing hard to get?
Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 5:19 pm
okay so just to warn you this is long.
19/f/nj
Well ive been talking to this kid i went to high school with,we actually started talking about 2 months ago through facebook,text,call. We didnt talk much in school but since we've been talking these last 2 months ive gotten to know him and he seems really great.WE hung out once before college winter break and that was about a month ago.We havent hung out since ive been trying to hang out with him but hes been sick and ive been sick as well but i just feel like its just an excuse to not hang out with me.We talked on the phone about 4 days ago and he seemed still interested in me (I mean we've been texting for the past 2 months almost everyday) he was away at colle...
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ignoring me? (part 2)
Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 2:02 pm
i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at m...
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belly button pierced?
Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 12:11 am
im 17/f
i wanna get my belly button pierced, but my boyfriend of 2 years told me i could do whatever i want, he just doesnt like them. idk if i should get it or not bc his opinion matters a lot to me. what would you do?
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texting...
Posted Wednesday January 6 2010, 5:00 pm
Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out and im pretty sure he likes me because he kissed me etc. But he always texts me saying "hey whats up" etc but like he talks a little bit then he just kinda doesn't say much and i have to keep the convo going.Like I will type a whole paragraph and he will say " haha oh nice : )" or something similiar and i usually just dont respond and then he will text me later and the same thing will happen.Why do guys do this?!
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Posted Wednesday January 6 2010, 4:06 pm
hey there is a couple of girls in my school that dont like me.. i seriously dont know why,today i whent with my friend to get a lunch and they were just starring at me..but i didnt stare at them back..i pretended i didnt see them ...it really bothers me when people dont like me because i never done anything bad to them ,and this girl when i pass by her she stares at me,,and no i dont have the guts to go up to her and confront er about this because i know this would just start a fight and am not up for this..so can you please tell me what to do ? thannks
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New guy
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 11:01 pm
On new years eve,i met a guy at a party.He goes to my school and I actually have a class with him,i just never noticed or talked to him until the party.We ended up getting along really good and even kissed and whatnot.He texted me later that night and the next day to talk and we hungout again and he held my hand,kissed me goodbye etc.He texted me the next day to talk and the day after that we went on a double date and he bought me candy,paid for parking,and held my hand etc. Then he texted me later that night ,just to talk and again the next morning.Finally Monday comes around and he wasn't in school ,so when I got home i texted him and asked him why he wasn't.He wrote back 5 hours later,just saying he's sick and went to the doctor and we t...
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