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is it just friends?


Question Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 5:30 pm

okay, so i'm pretty good friends with this guy i like.
and sometimes i get the feeling he may like me but othertimes i feel like it's just friends.
last night, he imed me and said i should call him, so i did and we ended up talking for 4 hours, until 2am.
and like we just chatted and discussed things while he played call of duty and stuff.
i don't know if i should just think this is friends, or if there is a chance it's something more?


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rayy23 answered Sunday January 10 2010, 3:30 pm:
Honestly, if a guy talks to you on the phone for 4 hours, that shows that he didn't get bored with the conversation and he's interested in you. It's also a good thing ya'll are good friends, I see that relationships sometimes work out better if they people are good friends. Well for me it does. I suggest that you keep talking to him and see where it goes. If he gives you more signs that he likes you, then you have a good chance. If he flirts a lot, then that's good. If he starts asking things like "So who are you liking these days,?" and stuff like that, its a very high chance that he is interested. I would just take it step by step and if you feel like he likes you, then you could tell him how you feel unless he tells you first. THIS is what the guy I like did.. He said hey lets play the truth game where I ask you a question and you have to answer honestly. So we played and he ended up asking me if you had to choose one person in our grade to date who would it be? And I decided to come out and say that I liked him, and he told me he liked me. So do something flirty like that if you're becoming impatient that he's not giving you any hints. But by what you've told me, it seems like he's interested and you probably have a chance with him. GOOD LUCK! I hope this helped(:
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ellen537 answered Sunday January 10 2010, 11:09 am:
Sounds like it may be something more. I would say a guy who asks you to call and talks to you for four hours is interested in you. He thinks you are interesting enough to talk to you for a long, long time. That's a very, very good sign, I think.

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