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Guy I like, don't know how to bring it up ...
I'm 15/Female
The guy I like, we'll call him Tyler. Tyler and I have a really long history... when we first met, we were living together at a flop house, and ended up sleeping together. Then we fought and didnt talk for a week or two... then I got pregnant, so we worked everything out. I was almost 2 months along when I miscarried our kid. So then we stayed friends, but never really talked much because we both left the flop house to go back to our parents. We came together when he got arrested, and he got out of jail and I went to visit him at his place, and from then on, we chilled every single day for about 4 months or so. Then we got into some stupid shit together, and ended up with a non-assossiation orde and didn't talk for 6 months. On Boxing day, we saw eachother for the first time, and chilled. Then he came out to the all ages club the next night, and got arrested again. We were acting couplely the whole night at the club and I deffinitly thought we might get back together, until he got arrested. I thought he was going to be in for 4 months, but he got released yeasterday morning. So he called me last night and we talked on the phone for an hour and a half, then we talked for another hour today. I think he still likes me, but I really don't know. I just want to bring it up in person, because I cant talk about anything with him in person, but he's on house arrest for the next 5 days, so I want to bring it up on the phone, I just don't know exactly how. I totally passed up the oprotunity yeasterday, when he asked me if I was still with my ex... ANYWAYS ... How do I bring it up ? What do I say ?
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Here's my advice!
Do you really want to be with someone who is being arrested all the time?? That's bad news my girl. You are 15 years old. That is definitely the wrong type of people to be hanging around with.
You already fell pregnant to him once, what if it happens again and he goes inside for a long time??? You'll be stuck as a single mum to someone who it in jail!!! What for mind you? Drugs? Fighting? Not something you want to put yourself in danger of or a baby for that matter.
At the end of the day it is your choice, you have a say and a choice in everything you do, however, at such a young age I personally think that guidence is everything.
I would strongly advise for you to get a job, earn some money, stay home for as long as you can (it's a big bad world out there) then when the time is right, move out with a guy who has a stable job who is able to support you. Not one who has a criminal record and has every chance of going back inside for whatever reasons.
On the other hand, your probably not going to listen to me anyway so the best way for a relationship to work is communication!!! If you can't speak to him face to face now about wanting to be with him, how are you going to speak to him about other things if a future occurs for you both?
Just speak to him, act mature.
Good luck!
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