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I'm pretty sure I love him...BUT.
My boyfriend and I have been dating two months or so, and I've known him for a good year. We were great friends while I was in a relationship with my ex, and once I broke up with said ex, he was there to talk to me and make me laugh.
During this period when I was single, I fell for two different guys; one, an adorable lil' guy that was another friend, but he had a boyfriend (bisexual). The other, my best friend's ex, a gorgeous sex god that seemed to be flirting with me a lot more than usual.
Either way. In the end, those two never made a move...but my new boyfriend did. He asked me out, and I can say that now I am thoroughly smitten with him. We've done the whole 'I love you' thing, go places together, and talk on the phone all night. He's also a poet, so he writes work about me all the time ^.^
I couldn't ask for it to be better.
BUT.
Lately, I've been having very vivid dreams. And they all seem to be the same thing; those two guys I once liked. In my dream, I'll either break up with my boyfriend or ignore him. I'm always with one of the other two; talking, making out, the like. In the back of my head, I can hear myself saying 'This is what you really want. What you want is them.'
In real life, I'm not as close to the two anymore. But when I close my eyes...I flash back like wildfire. And I wake up thinking that my boyfriend and I are separated. I have to call him and double check sometimes to make sure that the dream was just a dream.
I don't know what to do.
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Okay, remember that dreams are dreams.
Sometimes they have meanings. I don't think your dreams are telling you to break up with your boyfriend for one of the other two.
It's probably telling you that you desire the qualities that they have. You perhaps find something in the other two that you boyfriend does not have.
This does not mean that you love them or want to be with them anymore. Just a fantasy. I often have dreams where I need to double check if my boyfriend and I are still together. Silly I know but sometimes they do seem so real like you can almost feel it. But when you think about it, you know that it was just a dream and whatever it is wont come true.
You love your current boyfriend, that's all you need to know :)
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I think you love your boyfriend but are worried about the strength of that love.... And that's the only thing that's causing the dreams. Not that you don't love your bf or love those other guys - i think that's just your fear.
True love isn't a fleeting attraction anyway. You'll know if you really do love this boy
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