Member Since: January 7, 2010
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Last Update: January 8, 2010
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My boyfriend and I have been dating two months or so, and I've known him for a good year. We were great friends while I was in a relationship with my ex, and once I broke up with said ex, he was there to talk to me and make me laugh.
During this period when I was single, I fell for two different guys; one, an adorable lil' guy that was another friend, but he had a boyfriend (bisexual). The other, my best friend's ex, a gorgeous sex god that seemed to be flirting with me a lot more than usual.
Either way. In the end, those two never made a move...but my new boyfriend did. He asked me out, and I can say that now I am thoroughly smitten with him. We've done the whole 'I love you' thing, go places together, and talk on the phone all night. He's also a poet, so he writes work about me all the time ^.^
I couldn't ask for it to be better.
BUT.
Lately, I've been having very vivid dreams. And they all seem to be the same thing; those two guys I once liked. In my dream, I'll either break up with my boyfriend or ignore him. I'm always with one of the other two; talking, making out, the like. In the back of my head, I can hear myself saying 'This is what you really want. What you want is them.'
In real life, I'm not as close to the two anymore. But when I close my eyes...I flash back like wildfire. And I wake up thinking that my boyfriend and I are separated. I have to call him and double check sometimes to make sure that the dream was just a dream.
I don't know what to do. (link)
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Hm
I think you love your boyfriend but are worried about the strength of that love.... And that's the only thing that's causing the dreams. Not that you don't love your bf or love those other guys - i think that's just your fear.
True love isn't a fleeting attraction anyway. You'll know if you really do love this boy
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