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hey there is a couple of girls in my school that dont like me.. i seriously dont know why,today i whent with my friend to get a lunch and they were just starring at me..but i didnt stare at them back..i pretended i didnt see them ...it really bothers me when people dont like me because i never done anything bad to them ,and this girl when i pass by her she stares at me,,and no i dont have the guts to go up to her and confront er about this because i know this would just start a fight and am not up for this..so can you please tell me what to do ? thannks
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In all honesty girls will be girls which means girls will be bitches. Girls never have a real reason to give you dirty looks they just do it to make you mad. Most likely they are jealous and they can tell that it bugs you so.. they keep doing it. Next time one of them gives you a dirty look just look at them and smile, i know this sounds way weird but it works! they may laugh the first couple of times but just laugh back, ignore it. I promise you its going to bug them and eventually they will stop =]
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If you want to forget about all these girls without a confrontation than try doing just that. The main reason why girls are mean to one another is because they are jealous in one way or another. It could be pretty much anything with girls and I am sure you can relate to the horrible feelings of jealousy too. Try ignoring the girls all together. You have your friends and you have your life so don't spend time worrying about another girl who feels the need to treat you bad over a dumb reason. Just live and be happy and remember that not everyone in this world is going to like you, sometimes you just have to look past that and focus on the people to do like you.
I hope everything works out for you, stay strong!
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thats right, girls are girls. girls are mean people. even when they arent trying.
girls in my school hate me too, all for stupid reasons. we cant really control it unless you talk to them about it face to face. try to sort it out, whats the worst that could happen? if you catch them staring at you, make a funny face at them or do something funny so that they'll stop. if they see your staring at them, they'll stop. girls like drama, they like getting in drama and starting fights with other girls. if you stick up for youself, they'll know not to mess with you again. if you dont want to talk to them face-to-face, try facebooking/ myspace, whatever it is that you use. although its not good to hide behind technology, if it makes you less scared and you can get what you need to say out, say it, and dont regret it.
hope i helped! xoxo
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Girls are girls. They are mean, catty, and bitchy. We just have to learn to deal with it. You have three options.
The first is my favorite. It's what I always do when I am in the situation; If someone is staring at you, stare back. Eventually they will get so uncomfortable at the situation that they look away. It's quite hilarious actually :)
The second option you have is to ignore them. Let them stare, let them do whatever they want. If it doesn't bother you, they will eventually give it a rest.
You obviously don't want to do the third, but it doesn't have to result in a fight. Be mature about the situation, and next time you catch them staring walk over to them, sit down and say hey. Tell them you are getting a bad vibe and want to know if you have offended them in some kind of way. If they say yes, deal with the situation and try to resolve it. If they say no, say something along the lines of, "That's cool. I see you glancing my way a lot, so anytime you want to talk feel free :)" Say it seriously, say it like a smart ass. Either way they will shut up from then on out.
Good luck :)
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