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DREAM I HAD-NEED TO KNOW WHAT IT MEANS!!!


Question Posted Wednesday January 6 2010, 1:59 pm

So I had a dream that took place in my room involving my bff "our" ex and me... so i Was laying on my bed texting him and she was laying on the floor, i stared giggling and telling her what he was texting me without looking at her but when i looked down she had no shirt (or bra) on squeezing her own boobs...while i was texting him he was saying weird shit like your too young for me when he's dated people younger than me which was weird of him to say.... so please help me:)
14/female

HELP ME!!!


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iwantthetruth answered Thursday January 7 2010, 1:12 am:
Hmm.
I'm thinking about this one. It seems kind of complicated...but I'm just going to try to say what it sounds like to me.

So on the phone your ex was in a way rejecting you. The comment about him saying that you are "too young" might reflect that you feel like your aren't "good enough" in a certain area of your life. Maybe something is holding you back. Maybe you've felt hurt by a comment or by a past rejection. I don't know if you still have feelings for this ex, but that could also be it.

As for the thing with your friend, maybe this could mean that you are in someway jealous of her? Maybe it isn't her in particular that you are jealous of. What came to my mind was the breasts could be an indicator of being "older" since you mentioned the comment about being "too young". Of course it could just be a metaphor for something that you lack or you desire. It doesn't necessarily mean anything sexual or related to age.

Or it could be age related. Sometimes I still feel like my parents treat me like a small child when I feel that I am mature. (I am 17 and my parents still do this, so I can understand if you feel like you are being treated this way)

These are just some thoughts. They might not be accurate at all. What my psychology teacher told my class was that we are the best person to analyze our own dreams. Only we know our innermost thoughts and emotions, which are usually what are dreams reflect. So if you just try looking at how you feel right now then it might help make these symbols more clear to you. Also, if you keep a dream diary of every night's dream, it could help you put different symbols together.

Well I hope you figure this out. I hate not knowing what my dreams mean. Especially when they are so weird! Ahh, well take care <3.

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SecretDreamer95 answered Wednesday January 6 2010, 8:00 pm:
Okay, so you had a dream about your best friend being half naked and your boyfriend kind of ditching you on the phone or your ex.

I wonder if this helps:

To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.

To see a naked person in your dream and you are disgusted by it, signifies some anxiety about discovering the naked truth about that person or situation. It may also foretell of an illicit love affairs, loss of prestige and scandalous activities. On the other hand, if you are accepting about another's nudity, then it implies that you see through people and accept them for who and what they are. If you do not care about someone else's nudity, then it suggests that you need to learn not to be afraid of rejection.

I have a dream book that i read a lot so i kind of got some information from what i read. I hope this helps you ♥good luck!

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