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texting...
Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out and im pretty sure he likes me because he kissed me etc. But he always texts me saying "hey whats up" etc but like he talks a little bit then he just kinda doesn't say much and i have to keep the convo going.Like I will type a whole paragraph and he will say " haha oh nice : )" or something similiar and i usually just dont respond and then he will text me later and the same thing will happen.Why do guys do this?!
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Most guys aren't really into texting the way girls are. just keep the conversation going for as long as possible and if he still does that ask him "so what would you like to talk about?," or ask him, "Whats up?" just to keep the conversation going longer. Hope this helps!
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most guys do this. even if they are into someone. for some reason they just don't like to have a full conversation over texting. i think they would actually perfer to talk to a girl or anyone face to face rather than typing a huge long text. so i wouldn't worry about it too much girl!
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Well first of all don't take it personal a lot of guys just don't like texting and when they do its short and sweet or may be he has a phone that makes it hard to text. As long as you can have a good conversation person and you guys enjoy your time together then you will be fine.Take care
Tim
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I think their are a couple reasons why a guy may not hold an amazing conversation when texting. Maybe he feels the need to not get into to deep of conversations. I mean let's face it, most guys like to avoid "feeling circles at all costs." Or maybe he is still in that whole, I want to impress this girl so I better just be chill stage, which I agree is pretty stupid and annoying but guys will be guys. Their is the obvious answer that he isn't all that into you, but assuming that he is open and talkative in person I believe this guy may just feel awkward still. He doesn't know much about your intrests or belifs I assume and he probably just doesn't want to mess things up with you by saying something offensive or just plan stupid.
I hope everything works out for you!
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Some guys (mostly teenage guys) are not great texters! This is deff normal. They for some reason, never text anymore than a sentence and it's like a miracle if they text 2 sentences. Do not take this as personal or that it's your fault. Guys don't really know how to respond to some things so they just think quick and text "oh cool" or even just "haha". They don't want to convo to just drop dead so they think by texting atleast SOMETHING that will keep it alive and you'll text back. It seems like he is interested in you because he texts you alot and always asks whats up. Maybe you could tell him one time "im exhausted from texting so much, just give me a call if ya wanna talk" or something along those lines. Don't get frustrated about this though, it's just the way most guys are.
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