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im in love with my stepbrother...what should i do?? continued..
ok, if you are reading this you probably have already read the first part and know pretty much the whole story..
so recently my stepmom and dad got into a huge fight. my dad was working that day so i went over to comfort her. she told me she talked to her younger son, 16, (my stepbrother). she told me that he said something about me. She said he said " it hurts him to see me going through all this drama all over again, considering ive seen my mother suffer because of my dad and now to see my stepmom who is also my bestfriend suffering is like the past repeating itself. he also supposably said that he feels that i am part of his family because they suffered all their lives like i have.. also stating that i am brave, kind, pretty and have a big heart and that he feels bad seeing me in situations like this." when i heard this i couldnt help but cry. i burst out crying because no one has ever said anything like that or that nice about me. what blew me away was that he thinks of me as pretty. no one has ever told me i was pretty when i was little or even to this day. its always you LOOK pretty or you LOOK beautiful today. i found out this out about a week ago, and i havent stopped thinking about him and wondering if he actually feels the same way about me. i dont know...im confused... what do you think???
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It sounds like to me that your in love with him for his kind words. Us as women get very emotional and when that person comes along and says the right thing, it's like we highlight it and ignore the other things and he seems like he's a really, really, really sweet guy.Do not get me wrong who am I to tell you if your in love or not but he may have said those things because their true, he honestly thinks those things about you because your his sister he loves you but he may not be in love with you. The best thing to do is to just ask him and you'll just know. I really hope I was some help to you.
sincerely, Tai
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You need to be careful,it sounds like the reason he said what he said is that he looks at you as a sister and he cares about you.When kids are in a situation were there parents divorced or separated and they get remarried siblings go through so much in dealing with that,That they become variable so they can become attached to situations or people very easy. And with your stepbrother saying that about you it made you feel special which you are.But i don't think he meant it in that contents that you think. I would keep monitoring it and if his action priests then you know.Take care good luck..
Tim
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the two of you are not really related so it really doesnt matter if you have feelings for him although to your family it may look bad. talk to him about it. Tell him your mother told me what you said about me and do you really think im pretty no one has ever said anything like that to me. etc.
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Girl,
He is your stepbrother you two may not be blood related but you are family. It is not really clean to be looking at your family as your "lover, mate, boyfriend" that is just wrong....almost as bad as incest and I think you need to get over the little crush you have on him because if you don't people are gonna get grossed out
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