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Totally unexpected.


Question Posted Friday January 8 2010, 1:40 pm

ok so this is wierd as hell, a few days ago i met this girl who is one of my freinds best freinds (i think :S) but shes just sooo bubbley and has a really nice smile. i have no idea why my feelings have placed them selves on her, i dont know her, i dunno what i find intesting about her its all just a big mush of lonelyness and needy-ness.

My gf moved for university about 3-4 months ago now and now im finnaly gettin over her not being around my mind lands another good load of "heres who your probably never gonna get"
i wanna get to know her a bit better, but from just what i heard from my freind today i dont know whats going on with them both. she apparently sleeps round his all the time but they'r not going out and i dooont think they'r having sex (from what im guessing but they have allready apparently) my mate matt suggested we all go away to this big sort of theme parky thing in a few months he wants me to go and he wants to ask rach to go along as well, i want to go but i dont want somthing to happen which will put me back in my bad mood (say if i find out that rach and matt are more than they let on to be)

what the hell do i do? iv been in wierd situations before but damn this is confusing.

i cant explain it any better than that


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xxemilyfeil answered Friday January 8 2010, 4:18 pm:
well from being a girl, i think i can help you.

girls like guys who act first. girls like guys who invite them places. so, go for it and ask her. you wont know what their relationship status is unless you go straight to the source. talk to your friend about it first, if you talk to the girl, she may think your accusing her. girls' like guys who give them attention. maybe your friend is giving her a lot of attention and you need to step up to the plate and give her some too. they may have had the sex when they both had feelings for eachother, if they ever did. i say go for it and invite her. just make sure matt isnt asking you to ask rachel for him. let it be for you.

hope i helped, xoxo.

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