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idk if my boys cheating on me :(
weve ben going out a year and a half and were extremely close. him and my bestfriend fell in "love" and hungout alot without me. i still dont know if they did anything. but that was about two months ago, and once again hes acting like he doesnt know me he didnt even get me a christmas present or even feel bad about it. he keeps cancelling plans on me. i have two exs and they both cheated on me i cant take it if he does it too. but he acts like he loves me so much when were ever together alone. today and tomarrow we have snowdays and were gona hangout all day and he cancelled on me both days and saturday. help? i cant handle this, he acts like im his world and his true love, half the time..
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half the time. that means 50/100% of the time, hes a total asshole. that is not enough to keep a relationship going. here is what you need to do:
1) come into terms with the fact that he cheated on you before, and nothing is stopping him from doing it again.
2) he cheated on you with your BEST FRIEND. what the hell does that tell you?
3) your best friend does not deserve that lable. shes as guilty as he is, and i would not call her even as much as an aquiantance.
4) he keeps cancelling on you and didn't get you anything for christmas and doesnt even feel any remorse. that's not a good boyfriend at all.
5) you deserve so much better, because to me, it looks like you want love so much, you're willing to stay with an asshole who treats you like dirt.
6) have you ever thought that maybe you don't like him as much as you like the feeling of having a boyfriend? think about it.
what i would do if i were you, (this is my advice) call his ass and dump him. tell him you're tired of being neglected and you want it to work, but you can't keep being let down like this. he needs to meet you halfway and make an effort, and if he doesn't, then its not going to work out. like i said, from what it sounds like, he is cheating on you, and that's wrong, even in a highschool relationship, this is assuming that you're in highschool.
try to take a break on guys for a while. you'll find someone who would never do anything to hurt you, will get you presents all the time, even on christmas, and wouldn't cancel plans unless they were bleeding internally or dying. there is such a guy out there, and he's looking for you, too. and, i'm so sorry to say, since i know how much you care about him, but that guy is not the guy you're with.
think about what i said. and good luck :)
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from what you have said it sounds like its possible he is cheating on you or talking to another female. I had an ex whom I thought was cheating on me but I was not going to break up with him until I new for sure if he was cheating on me or not. We lived together and he just made me feel alone. he worked his job twice a day but his hours that he worked at night would get later and later. He keep accussing me of cheating on him. So I had a mad feeling when I worked one day and he wouldnt answer the phone or text message me back or anything but that night his phone was "dead" he was hanging with one of his guy friends in the other room so I looked at his phone and there were text messages to a phone number he told me was a guy friend. it was a female he told her he loved her etc. but i was a mess for like 2 months although i meet the man of my dreams after that and we are married now with a baby on the way. if it turns out he is cheating its not the end of the world because there is a man out there who wont do that to you.
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