I have a friend who is really close to me. But she thinks that only one girl is her GREATEST friend or...very AWESOME. And my friend really misses her really badly. When my friend went to a tournament, she hugged that girl but not me. She talks to her and says good things about her. But I don't see what's good about that girl. Now, I feel like I'm loosing my close friend. :( I really wish my close friend would like me more than her. Well, I know it's her choice on whom she choose to like. But that girl moved from where me and my close friend lives! So why does she have to brag about how GREAT she is. It's really annoying. And again, I would like her to like me.
But that's why you shouldn't compare your friendship to theirs! You two are different people and it doesn't mean that she likes you any less. I have close friends that I absolutely love right now! Just because she talks about that person to you a lot doesn't mean she likes her better. Maybe when your friend hangs out with another friend she talks about you all the time. She loves you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be your friend.
I know it sounds annoying how she talks about her all the time, but she really does miss her, so she may need your help to make her feel better. Be as supportive as possible and try not to take it personally. I'm sure your friend likes you.
sia answered Friday January 8 2010, 1:31 pm: the reason why she talks about her so much is because she is very important to her.they use to be very close.she cant just erase her from her memory.you just have to stik it out till she slowly gets over her best friend.if you want her to hug you then why cant you just make the first move and hug her first.mayeb it hasnt occured to her that your into the hugging and stuff.i wouldnt mention to her that your annoyed with her because she talks alot about her other friend because itll show your jealous and shes going to become distant with you.just realise that she loves her friend and she loves you too and that you dont need to be jealous because your just as close with her.she only talks to you about that girl, because your her close firned and your the one that she goes too when she wants to talk to someone.dont ruin that by being jealous [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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