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What do you think about the way I plan to ask a guy to a dance?
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 10:17 pm
Next month, our school is having its version of a Sadie Hawkins dance, where the girls ask the guys.
The guy I'm planning on asking is one of my good friends and I like him, and I think there's a pretty good chance that he also likes me back. I'm a year ahead of him in school but that's not really important.
Anyway, this is the way I might ask him and I was just looking for some opinions before I go ahead and do it.
I have a small jar/bowl about the size of a bowl you would use for a beta fish. I tied ribbon around the rim and inside, I filled it with origami lucky stars.
I'm going to put a note with it saying:
"These are origami lucky stars; a jar of them is supposed ...
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Why does he do this?
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 9:31 pm
I'm talking to a guy named Josh and we've been talking for about 2 weeks. During the last two weeks,we've texted a lot and hungout 4-5 times and kissed and held hands and all that.The last couple of days,he's been saying he will call me to hangout later.Yet he never did ,but then texted me apologizing for not being able to.We texted a few times and then he just stopped.Today at school,he told me he got in trouble with his parents and they might drug test him or something after school this day .He walked me to my locker,sat with me and my friends at lunch,kissed me before two different classes,put his arm around me,etc. today and told me he would call me later if he could chill.He hasn't called or texted ....I was thinking maybe his mom drug...
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best thing ever
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 9:10 pm
m/16
ok so i met this girl this past summer she was in a two year relationship with a guy and he cheated on her and she found out and she was completely crushed and heartbroken she loved him so much he was her first and everything but anyway i met her on myspace she friend requested me and i looked at her photos and commented one saying she was pretty and she commented me back saying awww thanks and that's where it all started we were just friends for a while she was talking to my best friend and they dated for about a week and things started to fade for them and i started to like her during all this because we talked pretty much every day and so then one day i told her and she said she was nothing special but i told her you'...
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Relationship question!
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 7:16 pm
hiya...i have been single 4 1 month after being with my ex boyfriend 4 4 and a half years...it wasnt a perticular good relationship and it should of ended sooner..when we broke up i think i kind of craved male attention as i didnt get this from my ex and i slept with 2 or 3 people..however i met this new people when i was out in clubs and that...im just a bit worried now cos every guy i have met is just after sex? im not saying i want a relationship cos its way too soon..but im worried that these guys are all the same and i wont find anybody who i really like..and the nice guys who seem interested in gettin to know me who arent after sex im just not attracted too? i dont know if i wil ever find the right person 4 me? im 20
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together since.. ever!
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 6:27 pm
Me and my best friend have been besties since 3rd grade. I'm 15/f and he's 15/m. I can trust him with my life. He's the sweetest, he makes me happy, he makes me laugh when I'm down and he's just genuine. I can be completely and totally myself around him and I know he likes me for me. He writes songs and he sent me one and it was about love and keeping the one he loves close to him instead of having this distance between them, it was amazing, it gave me chills so I was interested, I asked him who it was about and he replied "i don't write about my own life, it isn't exciting" but I showed a few of my friends and they said it was most definitely positively without a doubt about me. Then again, everyone in the entire school thinks we...
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am i going to get in trouble now
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 3:57 pm
soooooo pretty much my best friend was fightnig another girl because she slept with his boyfriend. so she has to go to court. buttttt i was wondering if i can get in trouble for a few things too.
1. i videotaped the fight. and my best friend had my phone and sent it to 2 people and it got around the school
2. i drove us there and had 8 people in my car. im only 16 so thats not allowed. can i still get charged with that if i tell the court that?
3. on the video you can hear me say "aw why you cryinnnn" in a sarcastic kind of mean voice. and i was egging my friend on. can i get in trouble for that?
and are they going to check my phone for the video in school because my friend tol...
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Dad interfering in relationship??
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 3:35 pm
I'm 19, my boyfriend is 21. I still live at my parents house, as I attend a local college. My boy & I are in a long distance relationship, & haven't met yet, but are scheduled to in mid-march.
I just told my dad about it today, because I planned on buying my plane ticket tmrw. He freaked out horribly, told me I'm banned from talking to this boy, end it now, blah blah blah. But, I'm terrified that if I don't do what he says, I will be kicked out of the house, & I'm not finanically able to live on my own yet.
My boyfriend lives in the UK, I in America, and I'm going to have to tll him we have to break up. This is killing me, I'm going to be severely depressed, I can already tell. And I know he...
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boyfriend's ex
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 12:53 pm
My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend are always fighting. They fight about their past relationship and what went wrong. They fight because one of them will bring up their current love life and the other doesn't want to hear about it. I'm pretty sure this means that they aren't over each other, but don't really know it themselves and/or won't admit it. Does anyone know if this is like...a psychology term that happens a lot? What should I do? Please, any advice will help.
Thanks.
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What do I say?
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 12:16 pm
Okay so I just got back together with my ex-boyfriend yesterday. Yesterday for some reason I didn't feel right and I cut myself. I haven't cut myself for about a year and for some reason yesterday I did. I tried to tell him on the phone but I couldn't. I don't know what to say or do...anyone have advice on how to tell him?
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I really like this guy, should i go for it?
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 9:36 pm
Im 16/f/sophomore, and i go to a public school. I've dated a few guys. One i dated for almost 2 years and that ended in heart break, and 2 guys that didnt really act like we were going out.
im in 4-H, and there, i met a guy who is home schooled. He is 2 years older than me (a senior), never had a girlfriend, and i dont get to see him much except for 4-H. We do talk on facebook though.
I really like him, and i am really nervous. i dont know if i should ask him out, or wait to see if he asks me out, and if i ask him out, what if i get rejected?
Also, just a random thing in this, he is a foot and a half taller than me. hahah
Please help me! i really dont know what to! dont just tell ...
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I Broke up with my Girlfriend...
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 9:03 pm
18/m
Im in college. Me and my girlfriend were long-distance. we saw each other over summer but waited six months until we visited again last week. during that six month waiting period I gradually went from being in love with her to to not really enjoying talking to her for too long. I thought that when we saw each other again in December that things would be better but they were not. Im not sure If I was just over-worrying or if I genuinely didn't enjoy my time with her because there were times when we had a lot of fun, we were laughing and joking and getting along. but other times, I couldn't enjoy myself because I was too worried about how much I would miss her when we parted.
Because things didn't get much ...
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New guy finally!
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 3:25 pm
So i met a new guy on new year's and we've been talking and things seem to be going good. He texts me everyday and we've hungout maybe 5 times since .We were hooking up the other night (just making out) and he tried to go further with me and i said no and he was fine with it and i told him "im not just a hookup,im actually looking for a relationship" and he said "i really do like you,im not an asshole and im not trying to just hookup" So i gave him the benefit of the doubt but i didnt do more than makeout with him..thank god.Ever since then,we've been fine and he would text me and stuff but i'm just still scared that he's only trying to hookup with me . He's been kissing me in front of people and holding my hand and what...
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bf said i needed to loose weight
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 3:25 pm
k so today i was with my bf and he was saying all these nice things about me.like he was like "oh you look extra beautiful today i just dont know what it is"...then after he said all those nice things he goes "but you really do need to loose some weight,im sure you like to eat alot,your like my little sister she loves food" i was like ok WTF.he know that i go for jogs almost everyday.i told him that i go for jogs everyday and hes like yeah but thats not enough,you should join a gym and eat less.i was speechless.
ok let me describe my body size to you.i have a large frame,im smaller from the top(size12) and bigger from the bottom (size 14)...im curvy.is this fat?do i need to loose weight?i was so hurt that i teared...
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What Does This Mean?
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 1:56 pm
I'm 17/f and I discovered when I was 14 that I was attracted to girls as well as guys. This doesn't bother me in the least because I know first and foremost I want to end up with a guy, and trust me I am pretty much the epitome of a girly-girl. However my question is even though I like guys, why do I still find myself strongly attracted to girls? I will end up meeting someone who is younger than I am and all of the sudden its this dominant personality that comes out of nowhere. I feel like I need the girl around me constantly and find myself noticing things that I would look for in a guy. I'm not freaked out by it I'm just wondering if this is just something that happens or if I'm just weird like that.
Thank you much,
Sparxx
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how to win him over
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 10:32 am
16/f
This guy Brian and I used to be really good friends but I'm pretty sure he liked me and I didn't like him back last year. We are still good friends but not as close as last year. Since I didn't like him he moved on to another girl but this girl, Alyssa, says she wants a relationship but doesn't want it to be official. What she means by this is she wants someone always there and around but she doesn't want it to be official because she'll have the pressure of having to do stuff. She is really prude, her and Brian had a thing for months and they only hooked up for a second the other night. I don't mean to bash on her but there really is nothing good about her, no personality, not very attractive, plain bitch, and prude. Now that I...
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am i boring him?
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 10:31 am
My boyfriend and i have been going out for over 6 months now. When we first started going out (this was during the school year), we'd hang out like every Friday & he'd text/AIM me pretty much every day. Over the summer we'd hang out like twice a week, and he'd also text me or AIM me all the time.
When school started again, this kind of slowed and stopped. I see him less and less now; we haven't done anything together since Christmas break (and that was only for like four hours), and before that, I don't even remember. And he doesn't talk to me online as often, either; I usually have to start the conversation to talk to him.
Anyway, my question is, what's the deal here? Did I do something wrong or is he just bored now?
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physical attraction with bf
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 4:56 am
so iv been goin g out with this guy for 2months now and we ve both fallen for eachother.yes i know it didnt take long to fall for him but it is how it is.anyway we started to get physical about a weeks ago.were not having sex yet but i gave him head and he sucked on my tits and rubbed himself against me etc.i have a few questions...
1. why am i not turned on?i should be,hes touching me and feeling me up and i think hes extremely hot and all but im just not turned on!like weve been physical almost everyday for the past week...
2.it kinda feels like now he just wants to hang out to get physicla.i mean every time we hang out he takes me out for a drink then we go and get physical and do all that stuff and then we hang ou...
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mixed signals for 5 years...
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 12:10 am
I dont have much space so I'll try to make this brief... I've been knowing this guy for 5 years. The first year I knew him he tried his hardest to try and get me to be his girlfriend. I always rejected until he gave up and started going out with someone that was actually paying attention to him. They ended up going out for a year and in that year I had also gotten a boyfriend. The guy was upset when he found out since I always told him I didnt want a bf. During that year that we were both in relationships we still kept in touch. when he broke up with her, my bf and i had also broken up. so we started talking again; about 3 months later he tells me his ex had called him and hes confused doesnt know how he feel for her... whatever. I told him...
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I'm finally done.......i think
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 6:59 pm
im a 16 year old female and im bisexal. it about the same girl from my last question i gave a few weeks ago. i decided to try to move forward in our friendship into a relationship but she basically pushed me away. So we have a small arguement and i end up being pissed so i told her im done, but i dont know if i really am. How should i move on from her or should i try to fix it and be patient and wait for her to change her mind about us?
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Another boyfriend problem
Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 5:53 pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4+ months now...it doesn't seem like that long, but it is for me. We have had sex, but I don't regret it. I don't feel like sex makes 2 people closer together, it just seems like a fun thing to do with someone you love for me, so I don't really know if our problems are related to sex or not. The main problem is that he's changed. He used to be so sweet to me...once he told me I was like God to him. The first time we had sex was a couple days after Christmas break began. I was about to leave on a 2 week trip and I really just wanted to have sex and have fun before I left...now don't get me wrong, this wasn't a spur-of-the-moment decision. I had thought about it before and we had talked about it a lo...
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